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Wouldn't have it any other way...A way of life...

Bill you can't honestly believe that,if you start believing that,your giving up hope that there are good people out there.

I doubt that this possible!

It is tough to find them, but i'm sure they are out there. The search continues.

To thine own self be true and then it is easy to be the same with others. :)

Look, being a pessimist is not one of my fortes! I do try and maintain a high level of optimism in trying to find that special person but maybe there is something about me that doesn’t present me as a solution to anyone right now. Star, I’m really not giving up though. I don’t want to hide back into my work like I have in past because being reclusive is not the solution. But in all honesty I don’t know if I really know how to get back in the saddle again.

There are totally honest and faithful people out there. I just met one a short time ago and he renewed my faith in men.

Joe Cocker had some really good songs. You are so beautiful to me, can't you see. You're everything I hoped for, everything I need, You are so beautiful to me.

You can leave your hat on. Joe Cocker, too, lol. :)

I don't know why I give up the secrets of the male realm...but here goes.
Men lie for all sorts of reasons, 90% is because they are insecure in the others love. Imagine for a second that no matter what you told you loved one, they wouldn't start loving you any less. So they try to make themselves better in your eyes.
Those men who know that they have your unconditional love don't need to lie to you. That's not to say they won't.
We all do stupid things to the ones we love and Faithlessness is a big issue.
Almost all of us have been unfaithful at one time or another, I helped someone else be unfaithful years ago and for my trouble I lost a good friend.
Never made the same mistake again, but if all my future loves knew that, may be I would have a harder time finding someone.
So I hope people forgive me and forget, I did the crime, I sure have done the time.

First let me say to you Bill,that its very important that you keep the faith,and we all at one time or another have hide behind one thing or another,in your case work.But you have to put fear up on the shelf,am not saying its a easy thing,but you are not he same person you once where,and we all,or some of us,get better with age,life trully is about trial and error,and one can't be held accountable for anothers mistakes.
If you never try,you never know.

And to you Optional,we ALL pay in one way for the things at heart we know we should never have done,but we can't change yesterday,and can only live in today.
We all have a past,and we all have a story to tell,and if someone can't forgive us,for walking through the stages of life,is this really someone that you wanna be spending a great amount of time with,if not the rest of your life with,I wouldn;t





These are just my personal opions ofcourse...........

I find that anyone truly looking for honest and faithful should add that they're also looking for over 30 because when I come along they say I'm too young.

It IS possible to be tired of the drama and games crap at 24 ya know lol

Like passing notes and cooties?

Sure there is Speedyskater. You wouldn't believe me if I told you that I am. Read my profile info.

If someone truly cares about you they will be honest and faithful.

Of course there is. MEE. I can ask the same of a woman. Does she exist. Im tired of getting burned and reading all the wasted profiles and figuring out if they really want a Serious Relationship. Im a truck Driver and that right there is a red flag to all the women out there. So what am I to do. Just sit and wonder. Does anyone have a remedy? Send me a note.

Thomas

now a day before people goes out with someone they hire a private eye to follow them around and watch them to see what kind of person they are.they make them take a background check.take a lie detector test that way they will know all about the person before they go out with them and know if they really want to go out with them.but in a way it takes all of the fun out of finding out who the person is.if you take the time to reaaly get to know the person before you rush into anything.you will know before you get hurt if they are the one for you.if they will hurt you or not.the best thing is not to see a word but watch how they treat other's for that might be the way they will treat you.if they do not have respect for other's than they will not have respect for you.if they lie to other's than they will lie to you.sometimes it is not a good idea to see with your eyes,nor hear with your ears,nor feel with your heart.but understand through your soul for you cannot lie to someone's soul but you can lie to their heart,they can lie to the person mind cause sometimes the are not seeing what is real.they are only seeing what they want to see and sometimes that is not the real person.sometimes in life it is not best to rush in but take steps like a baby small ones until you get where you want to go

I think maybe a picture that doesn't use filters and a pose that you may hold naturally during the day would first show that you were honest. Then honesty would find you! Then there would be less chance of the wrong one even getting close, and more of a chance the right one won't be unfaithful. Just a thought, don't mean you harm.

so far being faithfull has only got me cheated on an and being honest well i gue

there are not many of us left.if you have been lied to and cheated on.remember how it hurt every part of your body and soul.i never want that feeling again.i would not want to give that feeling to the one i'm in love with much less wish it upon anyone else.you become numb and it's hard to give anyone else the chance to love you.when that special someone does come along there is nothing in this world that feels as good as truely being in love.so why do anything to lose that feeling(nothing is worth that)

Well said.....