Posted: Jan 9, 2007, 8:49 PM CST
Souza,
you might be the sweetest guy in the world - alot of us women are suckers for nice guys, I know I am.
But the way you are presenting yourself says to me that you are needy, clingy and desperate - any woman will do kind of thing.
For starters you deserve better than just "any woman". You have to believe that the right one is out there for you and you are going to go out and find her. Women like to be pursued!
Persue women, flower them, email the ones that interest you. Speak with confidence. Don't say you just want to get married. If a woman doesnt' feel like you are all the interested in her personally she's not going to spend any time on you.
You need to be on the lookout for that one special woman just as us women are on the look out for that one special guy. Yes there is someone out there for you but even if she emails you from this post she is not going to be feeling very special.
Stop sounding so desperate, have confidence in yourself and what you have to offer a woman. Stop posting like you need a wife in order to gain citizenship and INS is knocking on the door!
Pick the wrong partner and you'll be married and miserable, start getting out there and meeting, dating, etc, and you might find that you are happy alone. BTW - if your not happy with your own company, no one is going to be able to fix that for you.