DinaD
Bristol, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jan 12, 2007, 7:21 AM CST
Sorry Jason, that really sucks.
This does happen for more often than not with chat sites etc. I knew a man in Canada that I cared for very much, and vice versa. Seems alot of others liked him as well, and did things similar to this in an effort to break us up. I have no idea WHY, because if he had wanted them to begin with, he would have picked them and not me. I don't know what they really had hoped to accomplish. I was upset and had my doubts at first, but I really cared about him, and he confronted this person (in audio chat room) with me there, and they didn't have anything to say, nor was there any other REAL proof they could produce. So I chalked it up to a jealous biotch trying to wreck what we had and moved on, WITH him.
And, you may not want to hear this but, if this person you love, love's you as well, they won't take someone else's word so easily and just dump you. If you are in some sort of relationship, there has to be trust, if both parties don't have that, the relationship is doomed from the start.
Good luck with this, and hope it all works out.