Divorced People?

Fanperk

Posted: Jan 16, 2007, 6:13 AM CST

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I see one benefit or positive thing that will come from me marrying again. I compromised to her desire or want.

I believe love is not strengthened by this ritual event.

I do not think it weakens the integrity of the love two share either.

I see it as mainly a ritual passed down from generation to generation.

as for "under the eyes of god" being married in church...Well is not anymore more visible by Gods eyes than two people who swear/promise their devotion and love to one another under a starlite night.

Yeah she wants the ceremonial event, then yes no problem, afterall I love her.

Wow firelit

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lvslife
moore USA

Posted: Jan 16, 2007, 11:26 AM CST

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I feel bad that I had jumped to conclusions and was in a joking mood when I responded to your heartfealt posting. Forgive me?

Oh no honey. No, no, no no. Do not feel bad. I think I just responded in my own, feeling a little sad kinda way. You said the same things that I have said when I was younger. I was not in the least, attacking you for saying what you did. You are right, once people get the lawyers involved; it all goes to hell in a hand basket. My personal opinion on that is; there should be mediators and not lawyers. Someone with nothing to gain other than satisfaction.
Kat

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Singleton11
Mystic, Connecticut USA

Posted: Jan 16, 2007, 11:54 AM CST

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Oh no honey. No, no, no no. Do not feel bad. I think I just responded in my own, feeling a little sad kinda way. You said the same things that I have said when I was younger. I was not in the least, attacking you for saying what you did. You are right, once people get the lawyers involved; it all goes to hell in a hand basket. My personal opinion on that is; there should be mediators and not lawyers. Someone with nothing to gain other than satisfaction.
Kat

Thanks Kat

I did not feel attacked, you do not do that to people, you are very kind. I just fealt bad because I made an assumption.

I think your idea about mediators is really great - put those divorce lawyers out of the business of profiting from others difficult times. Luckily, I had an amiable divorce and no children, nor property of any significance - I am one of lucky divorcee's.

Peace sista!

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IamDonny
LA, California USA

Posted: Jan 16, 2007, 3:46 PM CST

I'm willing to try it again. Only this time I'm going to pay much closer attention to who she really is. I found out the hard way that passion, while wonderfull, is not enough to build a lasting relationship. This time around it's the girl next door for me.

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natewood
springdale, Arkansas USA

Posted: Jan 16, 2007, 4:24 PM CST

I am divorced and I am willing to try it one more time. It will take one hell of a woman to get me to that point. I am in love with the idea of being in love...