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I'll never understand exs!!! They don't want you, but when they have another partner, then they decide they want you now and continuously flirt with you. What's with that? Jealousy maybe i dunno

Maybe they have learned since you are wanted by others that you are wantable. Did you change your appearance for the better after you to split up?

No, still the same person. However, the 2 of us have gotten older, so maybe that has something to do with it. I'm not sure anymore with men. I don't understand them.

I hear you there. They are almost as hard to understand as women, lol.

control?
still feel some ownership? i dunno, hon, without knowing about it more. Frustrating, you bet.

My ex wants to be friends. If I had my way I would have nothing to do with her but I have two boys to think about. When I go pick up and drop off the youngest I say as little as possible to her, even after being divorced for 10 years.

yeah, but does she still flirt with you...? Games...

No she doesn't and that's the way I like it :)

It's a safe ego boost.

It's a way to get a "read" on their new partner's level of commitment???

Total ego boost. Temporary feeling of power. Flaunt it if you got it. Just to piss her off. Just because I can. Because it makes me smile. Those bastards, men.

Wait a minute where am I? Actually I don't know. Refuse to even talk with my ex, won't meet her person to person when I pick up my son. Make her use a go between. Hate that F#*king B#$ch. AAAAAHHHH, venting; makes me feel better..................

I still have feelings for my ex. I just can't deal with my ex. I am too much a rebel like my kids, lol.

I had the same problem, my sons mom didnt want to be with me but as soon as i even talked to another girl she was all up on me no matter if she had a new guy or not. So I would ditch the other person thinking that me and my ex were getting back together, and then it would blow up in my face. So I decided that Im gonna be happy no matter what. Whether it is with her or not. It is confusing how exes work sometimes. I can honestly say that i have never played mind games with my exes.