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its ok..If you people dont like my pic then i will remove it very shortly.. can anyone imagine how much bad u feel when someone attack on ur face in public..is it a nice sense of humor? i dont remember if i ever hurt someone feeling in such way.. You all can view the Thread "whats more impprtant to u" u will see how some ppl behaved.. i am not convinced at all if anyone would take it as a joke..i really felt insulted..

i think i am in wrong place and should remove my profile too if i cant put any nice impression

Sorry asian

We can't please all of the people all of the time.

And is ignorance that has one attacking on impulse,and those who are doing so are just down right rude and not the type of people you should be communicating with.

Hold your head high and be happy with the being that you are,keeping a positive mind allows others to see your true beauty.

asian.. i seen the post your reffereing too. and while not many ppl may like you.. (not saying from personal expericance cause i have none with you one way or the other) the comment made was rude and out of line.. though like starlight said.. you cant please all of the ppl all of the time or something like that lol.. keep your chin up and let it fly by like a bad smell carried away by the fresh breeze eh ..

Women take the piss outta me all the time.Don't sweat it mate we all got issues.Someone gives you shit fling it back.If insults phisically wound well i'd be fcuken dead by now.If you have not realised it's a cruel world.

I wouldn't say people do not like him... I haven't seen any indication of that...

you are thinned skinned.... you should take a hard look at all the posts that made you laugh or grin.
Someone was the punchline of that joke you found funny.

Here, as in America, you become thicked skinned, inpart its caused by our rights to freedom of speech and the press. So early on in our lives we realize just words spoken or written for the express intent of laughter we learn to ignore or respond with the same rapier style remark. if its directed toward us. shoot some will even join n on the laugh attack.

Words are simply that and to take anything posted here as serious I can predict you will be hurt and upset more than happy and light of heart.

I went in and read what you were referring to. It was rude and undiplomatic the way it was presented. I apologize. But, I also, (and please know that I am saying this with much kindness) You are a good looking dude. But, if you would pluck just inside, between the eyebrows...you would see a really good looking guy. Of course I am here in America, and used to seeing men with less eye brows. I hope I did not offend you. Please know I don't mean to. Stick around buddy. This place is cool and the people are good. Good luck to you Asianboy.
Kat

What is that saying?..."Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me"....That's bullshit!..they do and can. Not everyone in America is Thick skinned. Lots of sensitive people out there.

i have seen indication on that a few times lene.. its one thing not to like someone and its another to flat out be rude to them.. but i have seen indication in some threads that seemed to me like some ppl dont like him and there is nothing wrong with not likeing someone.. but its wrong to flat out humilate them

An insult is bad no matter who says it when the insult is said with intentional hurt.

I haven't seen too much of that. The other day I reacted to something he had said to me I thought was rude. Him and I e-mailed and realized it all must of been a misunderstanding. Maybe the language barrier?

Many people may not and probably do not like me...but, to have someone come in and say "many people" may not like me, would most certainly hurt and make me want to leave this site. There are some rude people here, or just simply do not know how to be tactful in what they say.
Kat

yeah the launguage barrier can do that just a bit.. its good though that you both got it straightened out.. but its still possible for some not to like him.. just like its possible for someone not to like you or me.. and well we cant always just go around believeing that everyone likes us.. but like i said just because they dont like us doesnt give them the right to insult us

Sometimes though Mike just being truthful,no intent on being hurtful can cause one to hurt.

It's a cruel world.Take what people say these days to heart and you will be mentally screwed.I cared what people said and thought of me once too.It will just depress you.Give what you get.

okay let me be clear that i meant no insult to him by what i said in anyway and asian if you took it as an insult i'm sry for that.. it was not meant as one..

Its where less is more comes into play for me,the less people that like me the better......THose that do like/love me by far make up for those who don't....

That's true...All I am saying is I haven't seen too much indicating that alot of people do not like him.

from what I've read thus far you have more than enough support to get you through this vicious attack on your personal appearance. I still stand with my original post. ignore the idiot and move on.
they where wrong and if you hold us all accountable for the village idiot ho said it so "harshly" take me off your response list cause Sugarcoating is not my specialty... as i said toughen up cause it will probably not be the last time someone "kicks sand in your face".

you have your support group I hope it is enough to soothe your sensitive nature.