Posted: Jan 18, 2007, 3:11 PM CST
I just communicated with asianboy...and I have read everything on this thread and the one where the post was offensive.
First of all, for asian to be here, it take effort on his part, as he is not on a home computer.
That goes to show his genuine interest in CS, and the importance of it to him.
Asian, here is my reply, that you will see tomorrow morning.
You have every right to feel the way you do, and no one can dictate to you "toughen up" if you have sensitive feelings.
I am sure with time you will become more tolerant of the ignorance of the one's that hurt you.
In this case, you have more integrity( more respectful) than the woman that was rude to you.
And I truly admire, that you did not come down to her level of expression, but you were man enough to express your feelings, in a very educated way.
No one has the right to be rude, or insult another member of CS, but it happens here, sometimes from the people you least expect it from.
Think positive, know who you are, a great man, a great friend, and a human being, which gives you the right to have every and any emotion that is expected of someone normal.
You are strong in character, and that my friend is worth so much more than the rudeness brought upon you.
You do have people that like you, continue being yourself, and never change your physical appearance for no one!
You are who you are, and just like your friends that accept you, a woman of honor, will also accept you as you are, and how you look.
You are a handsome man, very attractive...but even more so, you have a beautiful spirit.
Hugs to you my friend
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Angel.............