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Grr..I hait it when a guy says that he only likes girls who are skinny..i dont get why they cant get past the outside image...i know thats cheesy..but it drives me crazy when a guy says he dosnt like me cuz im not f-ing perfect!!!!..god!!!..how is everyone?

Sweetie - first of all - you are adorable and secondly they are very shallow. Be patient - there is definitely someone out there for you!

I know how that feels...walking around in life with the body of a hairy troll isn't exactly uplifting, and alot of women love to point that out. Now if you don't mind, I'm going back under my bridge to eat goats

I know what you mean. Men don't like big girls like me. That's why I end up with losers that need me to mooch off of.

The guy that says that is not worth it anyway. He wants a image to date and have sex with, not a real relationship. The guy that wants you for what is inside of you is the one that will be worth it all.

aw..thank you..no one ever tells me that..OH YAY!!!IM ADORABLE!!!!! GO BANANA!ITS YA B-DAY!!!..e hehee

Girl most guys who are like that have issuses and try to cover it up with looks theirs and their skinny barbie doll girls.But deep down they know they want a woman like us down to earth.

im down to earth, even though im not big

Don't ever feel that way. When you put yourself down, you are let yourself be open to that kind of treatment. I have been on both side of the scale, I have had guys that want to use me, but I would not let that happen or give them the time of day. I have respect for myself and expect that out of a guy. I have had guys that treated me well, but the relationship was not what I needed or wanted at the time. Ladies it is attitude! A guy will treat you like trash, if you act and think of yourself as trash. You need to sit down and think of all your good points, focus on them, and love yourself. Let the guys see that, a positive attitute, because a really good guy wants to be around a positive person.

Be sweet inside. Whats on the outside can change in a second forever. Find a guy that knows that and he will love you all his life.

Same here Debs. Do you feel as guilty as I do

No matter what size we are we can have problems with relationships. So please give us thin girls a break.

i agree,

Maybe they are blind...

LOL!!! Meant every word of it! Don't let anyone and I mean ANYONE make you feel less than what you are!

Usually shallow immature guys only care about looks. Attraction is the key, and that does involve looks. However, it also involves personality, intelligence, demeanor, etc...much more important traits than looks. So focus more on who you are, how is that attractive to guys you want to attract, and don't worry so much about looks.

OMG! What is with you young girls? The sooner you feel better about yourself - and I'm thinking work on the inside - you are darling outside. Then you will not think you have to let them "MOOCH" off of you just so they will like you. Let me at 'em!! I'll knock them into next year!

Convince me that most women don't care about looks and I'll forgive you for your biased thread title.

Let me say this...beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. I am a "big girl"...after 9 children. I am proud of that. No one believes I have that many. I'm still "fluffy" in places.

I had to learn to LOVE who I was...regardless of size. I found that in doing that...others looked past the physical appearance and found "me" in there.

Nothing wrong with big girls. We are not any different than anyone else. I have always informed men that if they're looking for a Barbie...keep walking. I'm PROUD of who I am...and you need to get there!!!

Loving myself is the best present I could have given myself. Who cares about the rest. If a man cannot and chooses not to look inside...they're not worth the time. If the roles were reversed...they may not like it much.

Anyone can lose weight with the correct encouragment...but I refuse to change "inside" who I am for anyone. My outside is going pretty quickly...(you know..the gravity thing)...but my heart and soul are exactly where and how they belong!!!

THIS woman doesn't...but there has to be an "attraction"...from the inside. My daughter's father is the ugliest man I've ever seen...who cares?

If you were to think more of yourself, others thinking less of you wouldn't matter.