ArtisticParadox
Denver USA
Posted: Sep 21, 2005, 11:21 PM CST
hey i hope this thread is open to any guy to answer a question and not just Echo.
Anyway, you want a good guy to notice you? IMO every guy will notice you. You're a woman and given that the guy is straight, you dont have to do anything for him to notice you. He probably noticed you before you noticed him.
I'm guessing you mean that you want a good guy to ask you out. Well, keep letting him notice you, and he probably will. Flirt with him and your chances go up dramatically. However, if your really looking for a good guy, you should set your standards higher than to let a fake good guy get the best of you. Guys can be very convincing when they want to, and then, i know, they let loose and show they're real side. Well, get to know them better before you let them get away with anything. Do some real investigative work about who they are. Aside from stalking them, you can learn a lot about a person just by watching them when they aren't aware of it. You'll see things you won't when they're batting their big brown eyes at you. It's like in photography, one of the best way to capture the real human spirit is to take pictures of people when they don't know they are being photographed. You'll see things you won't when you tell them beforehand.
As for finding a good guy that will notice you. I think thats just dumb luck or something. Good guys are everywhere. We're all around you. But also, my point about watching people can be useful. Go to a coffee shop or somewhere where there are a lot of people and listen to what people are talking about. Mabey some guy will something that you deem as being a good guy thing to say. Talk to him, if you think he's worthy, ask him out.