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I find that guys that portray themselves as nice guys and are really assholes are smaller people than the guy who truly is an asshole, tells you so and makes no apologies. I have decided that the guy who plays himself off as a nice one, but truly is an ass is called a rat bastard...very distateful and lowest on the rung of life. Shall be add it profiles so it can be checked?

im a nice guy and always get fucked over. therefore i think ill just be an asshole from now on since girls love assholes and never leave or cheat on them.

Ok point takin will piss you off!

Nothing worse than a RB...and same I admire the man more that can be an a$$ upfront and be himself more more than I do the man that is intentionally deceiving others into believing he is Mr. nice guy!!!!!

'Tell it like it is.....Don't be afraid..let your concious be
your........guide.................

I am not saying the same does not apply to women with different adjectives. Nice guys need to stay that way because women will come around - the right women. The wrong guys/women will always remain at the bottom rung with the same reputation...just my opinion...

How about an ex that still calls in the middle of the night always wondering what your doing or who your with . having something to argue about all the time . like his problems and what happened to the relationship. Yet still claiming that he loves you and wants to make things right . I tell him he you left me for her . Then he again relizes that it was a mistake he made and regrets it because he never loved her. And then says he only did it because he had nowhere to parole out to and his friend hooked him up with his cousin. now he wants to come up here and my family won't have it so they say

sorry if you got hurt,but your giving us "real" nice guys a stigma.

im at the point where ive been fucked over, cheated on and used from almost every relationship. after 3 years. with a girl getting her into a good car, 5 vacations, about 3 grand worth of jewlery, helping her find a job. and helping her with school she cheated on me. so for all ive seen most girls are just self indulgent pigs and ive yet to meet one worth staying with. if there are any out there they can find me cause i give up looking. not worth the aggrevation, time, heartache, money etc.....

True dat

He broke my heart but I will always love him we have a son together. And 6 yrs is a long time to be with somone.

Nice guys always run me off don't know why .

I am sorry for your pain. Talking it out in forums can be very helpful. I am sure there are others here with similar stories who can relate to you. Good luck and God bless!!

Sounds like you went for a gold digger. careful

No actually, I am asking why can't everyone be real and nice...so unless you are a rat bastard no stigma attached.

The heartache is done with pretty much he is just a pain in the ass now.Let me refrase that a pain in my ear

Sweety, all things in life contradict eachother. Those who are weak, prove in desperation to be strong. Those who are conceited, have self esteem issues. It is all of balance.

at this point ill stay single forever. not worth the troubles. unless theres someone out there that proves me wrong. im done for a long time. im just gonna have fun make money and do my own thing. nice guys finish worse then last. and the nice guys are the true assholes cause were sick of the shit we get put through.

You tell 'em you cutie pie!

Most assholes are just nice ppl who are tired of getting shaatt..on!