Posted: Mar 24, 2007, 1:57 AM CST
Ever see Cruel Intentions?
I think has a great sound track.
Here's a snip from the Placebos Every Me and Every You
"Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind."
The thing about not being someone like that is you have no frame of reference to identify them, to see them for who and what they are before they hurt you.
And then to not get hurt again, you try to learn.
That is a drag.
Are you drawn to comfort someone who you sense is emotionally needy?
You ask why they do it, like if maybe you understood you could help them.
Maybe it's smart to not borrow trouble.
You seem to be a very nice person.
I can't really tell if you are talking about some head-trip power play or date rape. If you are talking about the guy you speak of in your profile, if it's him ...
I'd say he's trying to break it off. I hope that's not the case, but I think it might be.