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Younger men or older??Younger women or older?????Why??

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Younger men or older??Younger women or older?????Why??

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newchick
Truro, Nova Scotia Canada
Posted: Sep 20, 2005, 2:43 PM CST
Which do you prefer?Younger or older than yourself?Or does it make a difference?Do you have a fettish?Do you have a fantasy?Be honest!I have dated guys older than me for years!I dont mean a BIG difference, but older!I have recently found out that a certain guy, younger of course...does more for me than anyone I've ever met!I am 28 and he is 21!Not like hes 15. but there is a bit of a difference!Why do you think that is?
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NewInReno
Reno USA
Posted: Sep 20, 2005, 3:29 PM CST
You want the honest answer eh?

Well, I am 34. I have dated women closer to my age, and have found mostly the same thing almost every time. They either already have, or just don't want to have, children. I haven't had the chance to be a father yet, and I do want that. I am not saying that I look at just younger women, but I do sometimes. I try to stay within 10 years though.
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DamnitsCloudy
Lexington USA
Posted: Sep 20, 2005, 3:34 PM CST
Heeey! Welcome back Newchick! *hugggs*

Personally, at 23, I'd prefer an older woman, because down here in Kentucky, younger women tend to "run around" alot more. Plus, older means more experienced =D


Allen
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RainbowSlider
Yellville USA
Posted: Sep 20, 2005, 3:48 PM CST
Cool, six questions in one, lol. Geez, don't make these questions easy on my account, lol. Actually, you can put first and second questions together that makes only five. First question since I put one and two together. Someone as mature or more mature than me. She really don't have to be that old be as mature as me. I am still working on maturity. Second question. I like older, the same as or younger than me. If I am attracted to her and if I feel some attraction to her, even if it is only in my mind, then a difference would be counteracted by the attraction. Third question. I have a cuddle fetish. I like cuddling. Fourth question. Yes. To be in love, again. Being single sucks to beat hell. I mean if I was the dating type of person I might be able to deal with dating. Dating terrorizes me. I mean to be a person that dates someone different every night has never been like me. Paranoia, anxiety attacks, and other things about dating for me. I think dating someone different all the time is shallow but that is just me. I have been married most of my of my life and marriage just comes natural to me. I mean when you get time to know them and they get time to know you, then it is less stressful for both. I think we are on the last question, lol. As you know girls mature faster than boys most of the time because they really don't have a choice from the way I see it, anyways. Boys would have to be responsible for them to mature as fast as girls. Growing up a boy in parents background, I really didn't have role models. Mom and dad divorced before I was three. Dad dumped me off on grandma because he was in the Army. I loved grandma and my granny though on my dad's side. Mom's side grandma was reserved but granny was still cool the little I knew of. Male side men didn't live that long. Basically I raised myself and I really screwed it up, lol. People tried to help me but I rebelled against authority. It is a wonder I made it past five, lol.
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2good2b_bad
St. Petersburg, FL, Florida USA
Posted: Sep 20, 2005, 6:18 PM CST
You know, I really don't have a preference either way. It's the connection that counts. But I will say I have only dated one person born in the same year as me. Not really sure why.
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walktall
Ottawa, Quebec Canada
Posted: Sep 20, 2005, 6:40 PM CST
Growing old is mandatory; growing up is optional.
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Anarqi
Indianapolis, Indiana USA
Posted: Sep 20, 2005, 8:05 PM CST
In other words, I have to grow up but I can always be immature. Life rocks!
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honeyamber
Los Angeles USA
Posted: Sep 20, 2005, 9:27 PM CST
So many pros and cons to each. Really a tough question. Doesn’t really matter so long as the connection feels right.
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TabooN
Claremont USA
Posted: Sep 21, 2005, 8:51 AM CST
Swear this was covered in other threads...
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NewInReno
Reno USA
Posted: Sep 21, 2005, 10:15 AM CST
Yea, maybe so....I haven't been around long though. But hey, I got to add my bits to it, so I am ok with it....;)
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TabooN
Claremont USA
Posted: Sep 21, 2005, 11:55 AM CST
I'll just toss this in...said it somewhere before...

I know older men that act like spoiled children...Look for younger women to give back feelings of manhood that they could get if they accept life and laws of nature.
Women, too, so not going there, lol.

I've also talk to younger guys that have more honor and integrity than that most..

Aside from the obvious laws...If it is then it is...The maturity levels vary so much depending on each person...
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NewInReno
Reno USA
Posted: Sep 21, 2005, 12:01 PM CST
Yea. But when I say younger, I don't mean like 18. I would be just as happy with an older woman as I would with a younger woman really. Why do I like younger? Mostly, because like I said before, most of the women my age don't want to have a family again, if they have already had one before. I am getting a late start on it, but I DO want to be a father. Yea, if I met someone my age willing to have my children, I would love that. Thats is all I meant.

:)
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TabooN
Claremont USA
Posted: Sep 21, 2005, 12:05 PM CST
I know what you meant, sweet:)

Just lecturing...gotta love it, lol.
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NewInReno
Reno USA
Posted: Sep 21, 2005, 1:17 PM CST
:D

You are so nice to me....thanks!!!

:D
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TabooN
Claremont USA
Posted: Sep 21, 2005, 4:11 PM CST
awww, welcome..:)

Wait 'til I get really wicked...

Rest up, LOL
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newchick
Truro, Nova Scotia Canada
Posted: Sep 25, 2005, 9:59 PM CST
Hey guys!Its nice to be hearing the opinions on this!I dont know if its been covered on here,cause I don't go on threads too much anymore!I think people were tending to start trouble too much sometimes and thats no fun!!!!I just thought I would start one, cause it was on my mind about me dating a younger guy,and I am wondering why he seems so right for me!I agree that its not always the age, but the maturity level as well!I guess maybe this guy just matured alot faster than the guys way over his age who can't even get up and go to work in the morning!I know at first everything always seems great!Thats how we all get sucked in!!!BUT, Im hoping its not the case!Thanks for the welcome back!!!I haven't been on a thread in a long time!!!!
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newchick
Truro, Nova Scotia Canada
Posted: Sep 25, 2005, 9:59 PM CST
Hey guys!Its nice to be hearing the opinions on this!I dont know if its been covered on here,cause I don't go on threads too much anymore!I think people were tending to start trouble too much sometimes and thats no fun!!!!I just thought I would start one, cause it was on my mind about me dating a younger guy,and I am wondering why he seems so right for me!I agree that its not always the age, but the maturity level as well!I guess maybe this guy just matured alot faster than the guys way over his age who can't even get up and go to work in the morning!I know at first everything always seems great!Thats how we all get sucked in!!!BUT, Im hoping its not the case!Thanks for the welcome back!!!I haven't been on a thread in a long time!!!!
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unkieed
McKinleyville, California USA
Posted: Sep 25, 2005, 10:19 PM CST
My exwife was older than me and it didn't matter because the chemistry was there. Since then I've gone w/ a few older women and I say if it feels right... go for it! :)
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walktall
Ottawa, Quebec Canada
Posted: Mar 22, 2006, 6:12 PM CST
Seems to be an echo on here!
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FunnyButt
Fallston, Maryland USA
Posted: Mar 22, 2006, 6:52 PM CST
The folk in Baltimore City like them ancient so when they die, you can fraudulently collect their social security.
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