HOW LONG AFTER A RELATIONSHIP DO YOU START OVER

fishkm815
Antioch, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 2:34 PM CST

Well that the question I asked myself all the time. It has been four years since my divorce and I have not even dated yet. Maybe its because I have really not been looking. I think it depends on each individual situation. But I think my time is now.

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Dragnzx
Underabridge, Alabama USA

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 2:36 PM CST

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Well that the question I asked myself all the time. It has been four years since my divorce and I have not even dated yet. Maybe its because I have really not been looking. I think it depends on each individual situation. But I think my time is now.

As soon as the tailights are out of site !!

Okay, depends on alot of factors. The main thing is wait until you are ready and have accepted the divorce to the best of your ability.

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Pompey70
Portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 2:38 PM CST

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Well that the question I asked myself all the time. It has been four years since my divorce and I have not even dated yet. Maybe its because I have really not been looking. I think it depends on each individual situation. But I think my time is now.

Personally I think it depends on how much u loved that person. It's an unaswerable question similar 2 "How long is a piece of string?" good luck in your search tho.

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fishkm815
Antioch, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 2:38 PM CST

thanks - I believe its time to find that special person to share my life with.

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artgurl0927
Heart of the Valley Canada

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 2:39 PM CST

When you feel ready...it is different for everyone. Good luck to you.

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fishkm815
Antioch, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 2:39 PM CST

Well after 15 yrs of being married and 4 yrs of being divorced I am ready.

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Deianeira
Aztec, New Mexico USA

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 2:40 PM CST

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Well that the question I asked myself all the time. It has been four years since my divorce and I have not even dated yet. Maybe its because I have really not been looking. I think it depends on each individual situation. But I think my time is now.

Well, I have waited about 6 years. But I am slow and had a little one. Best of luck!!

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Dragnzx
Underabridge, Alabama USA

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 2:41 PM CST

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thanks - I believe its time to find that special person to share my life with.

Do I need to move to Antioch ? There seems to be an epidemic of single ladies up there !

Is there something in the water ?

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fishkm815
Antioch, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 2:46 PM CST

Nothing in the water? Its probably just coincidence!

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Dandelion
Southampton, Hampshire UK

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 4:12 PM CST

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Well that the question I asked myself all the time. It has been four years since my divorce and I have not even dated yet. Maybe its because I have really not been looking. I think it depends on each individual situation. But I think my time is now.

There is no rule of thumb time-wise, if you do think its time for you now - go for it!!
There are lots of lovely people out there - and in here. Just be cautious though, some are not all they seem and there are "Players" around.
I put on my profile I was not interested in those with inflated egos or bad manners but that's what I got!!
Otherwise, date and enjoy yourself. Keep us posted as to how it goes, yeah?
Good luck, honey.
Dx.

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cardsfan23
somewhere USA

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 4:14 PM CST

good luck on ;your search

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fishkm815
Antioch, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 4:40 PM CST

Thanks for all your encouragement - Don't worry, I plan to take my time and I will be very cautious. I have heard about some real winners that play on people's emotions and scammed alot out of them. How can those scammers live with themselves - who knows!

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hddog
clinton twp, Michigan USA

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 4:49 PM CST

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Well that the question I asked myself all the time. It has been four years since my divorce and I have not even dated yet. Maybe its because I have really not been looking. I think it depends on each individual situation. But I think my time is now.

the day after...life's to short to just hang around....

but hey what the hell do I know?

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Jess642
Agnes Water Australia

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 5:05 PM CST

Uuuummmm....I will let you know how long it was.......... when I am in a relationship, and I am imagining you mean a romantic one...

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guitarplayer00
Portland, Oregon USA

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 6:25 PM CST

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Well that the question I asked myself all the time. It has been four years since my divorce and I have not even dated yet. Maybe its because I have really not been looking. I think it depends on each individual situation. But I think my time is now.

you've done your time. Now go and follow that instinct! you know yourself better than anyone else. Good luck in your quest!!!
;-}

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VioladorDeLaLey
Bajo Un Sol Feliz USA

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 6:27 PM CST

That will depend ... but somehow you will know when

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adj4u
north central USA

Posted: Jan 27, 2007, 6:28 PM CST

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Well that the question I asked myself all the time. It has been four years since my divorce and I have not even dated yet. Maybe its because I have really not been looking. I think it depends on each individual situation. But I think my time is now.

as soon as the right one comes along

with a devorse why wait

not like they died

if they had well maybe a little while

but if the love was true

would they not want you to be happy

if the right one came along

just a thought

but hey what do i know

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peanutsdaddy
Gobles, Michigan USA

Posted: Feb 4, 2007, 10:48 AM CST

rule of thumb? did you know that in the 1400s it was legal for men to beat their wives...as long as they used a stick no wider than their thumb.
nice little bit of trivia. that is where that comes from.

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Adrean

Posted: Feb 4, 2007, 10:54 AM CST

think I posted here before........

when you feel you've greived and it's time to move on.(when your ready).

There is no time guide line...only what people dictate to us..

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Dusty45
Louisville, Kentucky USA

Posted: Feb 4, 2007, 11:59 AM CST

A while.

Same as what everybody else is saying.
If you feel ready - go for it.

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