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This was posted by zdeadman a while back, I saved it for some reason?????
now i can only speak for myself and no one else.but making love to a woman the right way has been hazardous to my health,i have the doctors records and x-rays to prove it.
i had my fingers broken a couple of times and had my neck put into a neck brace a couple of times,people have differt ways on how they want to have love made them to.
what works for 1 may no work for someone else,over time they had found what works for them and what does not work.as for me i have took my time to find what works and what does not work.
i have listen to them as they told me how they like having love made to them.which each ending in the same way multiple orgasms,i have not met a woman yet that cannot have 1.if you know what you are doing and you are out to satisfy her and not just yourself.
for a woman to have a orgasms is alot harded than it is for a man to have 1.there are differt ways to make her have 1,but you must be willing to take your time to find out which ways will work for her.
explore every inch of her body until you find those places,with your fingers and oh yes your tongue.just spread some ice cream,with some whip cream and oh yes cannot forget the chocolate sauce spread it all over her body than very slowly lick it off..the slower you go the more crazy it will drive her.
while you are licking the top part of her body,with your finger and thumb you can massage her clit and g-spot now here is the trick to be able to do it,all at the same time.here is the problem you have to watch out for if you are doing it right
watch her body some woman when they are coming they will lift their bodies off the bed.some will take their time,while others will not,if your finger is still maaaaging the g-spot if you do not get it out in time,most likely your finger will be broke.by the force she will come up with.trust me i learn the hard way from 3 differt womans.
but let's back up here first you have cook her yes cook her a surprize candle light dinner,for you guys that does not know how to cook,than you have a problem.but cook her a surprize candle light dinner,oh yes do not,i repeat do not forget the flowers.
have soft music playing,DO NOT RUSH THINGS, but enjoy her company,enjoy spending time with her,after dinner no it is not time for sex.oh no take her for a nice walk,walking hand in hand under the stars,or if you go out before the sun goes down,take her so ya can watch the sun sets,hold her in your arms as you are sitting there togther.you don't have to say a word,just enjoying spending time with her.
but here is the thing,just because you are her and she is spending time with you,does not mean she is going to have sex with you,just because you cook her a dinner and took her off so you can spend some time with her,does not mean she has to have sex with you.
see here is the thing she has already paid you by you having the honor of her company,see that is the thing she has honor you and you have not honor her.do not ever think that she cannot find someone else.someone who will appreciate her and want to spend time with her.without wanting to have sex with her.
in case you didn't know there is more to a woman than just having sex.
I've seen it and appreciated then........... and now