I don’t know how to please a woman, but I do agree that women can be dangerous when having orgasms.
I’m made up a ‘safe sex’ kit. It consists of four 1” wide dog nylon collars that have been cut short to be used as wrist and ankle straps. There is also a larger nylon dog collar that can be used as a woman collar.
My ‘safe sex’ kit also contains about a dozen two-sided quick release dog clips. Several chrome plated choke collars that can be quickly wrapped around bed frames to serve as anchor points to clip the D-rings of wrist and ankle straps too. I also keep about a dozen 3-foot chrome plated leases in the kit as they also come in hand on occasion for anchor points. In worst case scenarios they can be clipped together and slid entirely underneath a bed providing anchor points at each side of a bed that might not otherwise have good anchor points. After all, the idea is safety! Don’t want the woman to break free in the middle of an orgasm. Beginners should start by binding the woman spread-eagle face up on the bed. Taking great care that no chain are actually used against her skin. All chains are used solely to anchor the D-rings of the soft pliable nylon collars (wrist and ankle straps).
Depending on the wildness of the woman knee straps may also be useful, to prevent legs from closing unexpectedly. Any leftover chains may simply be poured onto the bound woman’s body. These loose cold chrome plated steel chains will naturally slither over her skin producing erotic eruptions that shudder through her body.
As far as I’m concerned this is the only way to have ‘safe sex’ with a woman. So I’m always glad to meet women who demands that we have ‘safe sex’. I can torture her with relentless multiple orgasms this way without any fear of ending up with a black-eye produced by her erratic erotic spasms. About the only thing she can do at this point is bite and cuss. And there are ways to deal with women who bite. For that you may need to make a trip to a horse harness shop though.
I will only have ‘safe sex’ in this day and age.