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Only older than me. Ten years younger is just too much at my age right now.

sometimes u might think they let themselve down, but maybe they are just making sure that they are stepping on safe ground. which is different

Up to 10 years older maybe, but not 10 years younger. Nice to look but not touch.

Sorry, I don't see the connection. If you lose out because of it, you have let yourself down, not checking its "safe ground", whatever that may be?? Do you have experience of an older woman then?? Is that why, you are speaking from past knowledge??

I am, and loving every minute of it!

Always had a thing for older men. And when I decided to finally date one younger by about 5 yrs it was a headache.
but age is only a # . But you have to have fun sometime .

Not sure

my husband was fourteen years my senior.

Hey now!!! Age is just a frame of mind. If you get along well and enjoy each others company....why not??? Life is to short to pass up a good thing. Can't let something like age ruin it for you both.

Why not???

I am 28 and a 38 man would be nice to protect me and take care of me. Men on that age knows what they really want from life and they are not playing games...so, why not?...I could date a 10 years older man...i could do it, yes i could.

I "ve dated guys 5 yrs younger, but 10 yrs. I wouldn't care about to much. That is just to young for me, I"d feel like a old bag standing beside the fountain of youth.

My Dating days are done, I will not date anyone older or younger then I...


I see it all as a game of who can I get AIDS from next, pick your desease and share it with all of your closest and least trusted friends...

If that's the option. then count me out...

I have always said that age is a state of mind more so than a matter of time. And yes, if the age difference was the only "issue" 10 years would be ok (in the past I dated one man 11 years older). I would just have to draw the line where it gets to the point where my significant other was in the same generation as my kids. That would be creepy, not just for me, but my kids would be cringing LOL

I was married to a man 15 years younger than me. Over the years, I grew up -- he didn't. But we had some really wonderful times together. I like younger men; but I also like older men. Age is an attitude, not a sentence. One guy on this site said he only dated younger women because older women had no sex drive. I about died laughing! Talk about stereotyping! Older women are generally self-confident and secure in who they are. We've been through the fire and came out again with backbones of steel. We're interesting to talk to and can actually pick up the check without feeling unfeminine.