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If you are looking for it, it could be a problem yes. Could very be nothing is wrong. But go with what your instincts tell you, your "gut" feeling...never mind the intellectual side of what is going on in your mind.

skeptical and careful are the same line when children are involved or concerned.

nevr had this kind of attention when ya was younger???

best advice i can give ...."Relax and Enjoy the screening process"

Now ... Wait ... it is me

Well, kids or no you have to also do what is good for you.

I am careful. He loves my kids and frankly they love him. He's so good to them. He even stayed up after his shift all night to go with me and get my 14 year old an electric guitar. He does little things for me I'm not used to....like takes out the garbage, watches cartoons with the little ones. ANY man who can sit and watch "Dora" is ok in my book!

That could be why you are questioning it so much. Seems too good to be true. But as I am also such a person I can tell you they are out there. Go with it.

Thank you. I will try. Gotta get to work...thanks everyone and I hope you all have a wonderful day!

it's a ruse....it all breaks down......

but then....


maybe...just maybe...he really likes Dora.....

Define Normal???

tis true.But its always is.No body wants something till someone else has it.

It's the Murphys Law of Relationships I think...

I know take me for instance..............

i am here

Some of us arn't cute and sexy...

We just disapear INTO the woodwork.

I have three women trying to get in my pants right now. But they are all extremely young so you can’t blame them. They don’t know any better.

I’m actually thinking about allowing on of them into my life. She’s in her late 20’s, would that be considered ‘robbing the cradle’ for me? I’m actually at a point in life where I don’t really care anymore.

She’s really just want I want. She a complete scientific nerd who would rather talk about quantum mechanics than shoes. She actually understands the language of calculus and we have even carried on conversations speaking in purely mathematical sentences. This is like surrealistic bliss for me.

She doesn’t even care that my place is a filthy mess, and she’s even offered to help me clean it up and remodel.

Looks like I’m going to be gone from CS pretty soon.

The lord works in mysterious ways.

And I’m not even religious!

But I might be pretty soon. This woman sounds like an angel from heaven. Why she’s interested in me I have no clue. But then again, some questions are perhaps better off not asked.

I hope it works out for the two of you but you had better be careful because if she is truly a scientific nerd and likes to have complete conversations using only mathematical sentences, she would never, ever offer to help you clean your place!

Sorry about that, I just couldn't help myself. I do honestly hope that things work out for you.
You are truly one of the nicer people on the site.

Rob

Well, you know what Rob. I just realized from another thread. I don't even look at it as a 'relationship' anymore. In fact, I'm getting to the point where I even hate that word.

I think that's everyone's problem. If instead worry about where it's all going they would just spend time with people maybe things would evolve naturally.

I'm definitely going to spend time with this woman. Wherever that might lead so be it. I’m not even thinking of it as the start of a ‘relationship’.

Come to think of it, I never viewed any of my past ‘relationships’ that way either. I always just let whatever happens happen. And I have always accepted wherever they go as well. Maybe that’s why I never had a problem saying goodbye when we part.

I just can’t conceive if being in a situation where I’m actually arguing or finger-pointing blame about breaking up. To me that’s nothing short of absurd. If we aren’t getting along then we aren’t getting along what’s with all the blaming? It takes to people to not get along.

I’m not the possessive type of person. If my partner wants to leave I’ll carry her bags out to the car for her. I mean, not in a spiteful way, but to seriously give her a hand leaving. I don’t want to be with someone who isn’t happy being with me. And I see no reason to get peeved about it either. If she’s not happy being with me then I’ve failed to make her happy so who can I point my finger at but myself anyway?

I don’t want a ‘relationship’. I just want to be friends. That’s all I’ve every wanted.

The whole ‘relationship’ thing is just too ‘possessive’ for me. I don’t think this woman wants to possess me, and I don’t want to possess her either. We should get along just fine.

You know, you are right. People putting so much emphasis on making something called a "relationship" be successful, only end up ruining what could have been a good friendship.

Hmmmmmmm