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Hello everyone!
I am a newcomer to this site and have decided to give this a go...
Based on all of the wisdom you beautiful people have learned when it comes to matters of the heart, please feel free to drop your two cents here!
Sometimes, we find ourselves with a broken heart and sagging self esteem after we realize that he or she is not "the one" after all...

Love ends and we move forward with a couple new scars.
What do you do to ease the pain...? Creative ideas and advice are welcome!
Personally, I think doing nice things for yourself to build yourself back up are priceless...how about filling the void with a new love? Bad idea or bandaid for the wound..?

Hello & welcome to CS

step one complete

now find something in here you like and join in

nice to have ya

just keep the salt shaker handy

Welcome to the forum Kiss the miss, enjoy and have fun

Welcome and enjoy

First of all.. welcome to CS!

For me... I just try to regroup and get over the pain by staying busy and staying close to my friends. I have lost in love twice... The first time.. I moved way too fast and did the rebound thing. It lasted for 10 yrs. but was never "true love" I guess. This time around I am gonna just take care of myself first of all and then if Mr. Right is out there.. he can find me! Just my thoughts

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El Diablo

Being there a couple of times I usually get to the point where I think of the line from that movie

"get busy living or get busy dying"

I watch sitcoms to bring me out of a funk.
Food is not a good answer to turn to.. the joy it gives you is to brief.

These boards are a good place ....

many very nice people here

the rebound thing suks in my opinion. just let nature takes its course i say..

welcome to c.s.

Hello and Welcome

Hello cutie pie

Getting over a broken heart is always difficult. You need time to heal, but you also need to get your attention away from the ex and/or relationship.

DON'T rush into dating again. Instead, spend time with friends and family. If you think you're ready for dating after a week or two, maybe you are ... and maybe you really aren't. If you try to get going again too soon, you may end up regretting it.

When you are sure you are ready to date again, force yourself to take things slowly. You may still be on the rebound, and if so you could fool yourself into thinking you've found a wonderful person when he/she isn't all that special at all. As much as possible, try to find men/women who have little or nothing in common with your ex; this will help you get over him/her. Later you can expand your dating options to include people who aren't so very unlike your ex; but check your heart to make certain you are interested in the new person, and not just trying to recapture the magic you felt in the old relationship.

Don't be afraid to date and have fun when you are ready. But be picky when it comes to commitment. Women are better at this than men, I believe; once a man becomes interested enough to want a commitment, he's more likely to charge head-first without looking objectively at what he's getting into. OTOH, men may be a bit slower about getting to the considering-commitment stage. (Not all men, though. I'm living proof of that.)

Welcome to CS!!

To answer your question, follow these simple steps:

1. Keep smiling (you have a beautiful one)
2. Pack
3. Come down to North Myrtle Beach, SC
4. Keep smiling
5. Unpack...where you may ask?
6. Smile.......


I hope you find what you seek! Good Luck

Welcome to the sandbox! Have fun!

Wow, so many words of wisdom and kind new faces! Thank you all for the warm welcome...I am happy to have taken the time to join into this online community.
Take care and I look forward to meeting some new friends here in the future...not to mention, yet more mentors who have gone down this road before.

K

Hey there Kiss this miss........you are now hereby decreed KTM......


and remember.....The best way to get over an old lover....is to get under a new one.....


The King......

Good answer Red, I couldn't have said it better myself. Yeah for taking care or ourselves!

Ok guys...
I have to make a comment on this one! I agree that finding a new flame is a good way to get over the old one...
but I guess you have to make sure that you really like the person and are not just "trying to get over" the old one.
Take it from me, I did just that and ended up going..."that was sooooo not worth it!" haha. The crappy thing? I wasn't any closer to being over my ex than I had been before
I guess time will be the only thing to bring me a worthy replacement.