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you know when some one says hello or send them an gift most people will replay but if they see a disabled person trying to say hello and be nice to them they never say a word i Hate it because we are people too and we have bigger n better hearts them most people any more i have been on this page fore a few months yes i know i'm not a good looking man and all but this don't mean i'm not with out fellings becuase i am and i have alot of heart i have been threw alot more then most people on this page starting with 3 open hearts surgery's all before i was 3 years old and threw out my life i spent in the hospital surgery after surgery and i also grew up with an very bad father who moslted all of 5 kids and beat the hell out of my loveing kindhearted wonderful mother now that i'm 36 years old and trying to find the woman of my dreams who visit's me every night in my dreams she's taller then i am long very long blonde hair and very kindhearte and caring and a littel younger them i am



so ladys whats up your afraid of getting atached to us disabled people or you think we have something that people can get well it's not true at all alot of it has to do with the gen's if people really think about it anything could happen and even could happen to you yes i do have fellings and i speak my mind witch some times get's me in to trouble

so please think about it lady's i'm not perfect in any means but unlike most men i do have a HEART of gold and know's how to treat a woman wright she will know the true meaning of " i love you " if she picked me


if you really get to know me i'm an funny n all right man to be around a very nice guy too just give me a chanse okay what do you have to lose

There are many people who are able-bodied who's hearts are disabled...

I hope you find your gal, and she sees the man with an able heart, not the body's disability...

Nice to meet you, and Welcome...

Hi and welcome. I hope you find what you seek

i think your profile is a litle particular with what you ask for especially saying you want your women to have a figure like those in a playboy magazine. jmo

its true if you read it lol, just very particular i would say in a few ways

there's only a puke emoticon... Need finger down throat one...lol

I have to agree here...very picky about what he wants, but wants a woman to be accepting of him.

I am going to take this oppurtunity to say this. Why do people that don't get the response they want from somebody else take it so personally? Do you email every single profile you read? NO. You generally only email the ones that interest you or that you think might fit who you are. If they read yours back and don't see the same attraction or fit....why take it personal? They should automatically respond just because you want them to?


That was a general statement.....now this will is for you Bob.

I believe I may be one of the women you are referring to. I have responded a few times but being disabled has nothing to do with my disinterest. You are looking for a non-smoker. I smoke. You are looking for a woman that likes sci-fi. I hate it. You are looking for a woman that has a body out of playboy. Not me. You are looking for somebody who gets along with your mom. I generally clash with mens moms. You are 5 ft tall. I am 5 ft 10. I could go on and on but I hope you get the point.

Being disabled has no issue here. Everybody is not right for everybody else. If we were, we wouldn't need dating sites.

Good luck with your search.

i totally agree, hes obviously realy picky, and he must think women with a body like from a playboy magazine are going to be flocking around him. i doubt it, i would never be that particular in a profile i was shocked when i read it

totally agree with you there too

i dont think he will have any luck unless he broadens his profile a lot