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A relationship is a two way street. It's never all your fault or the other person's. You go into the relationship together and work through it all together.

Those word "Can" be true I suppose...But sometimes people go into relationships blindly, and it actually "ends" or self-destructs for various reasons.

In my experience, I ended up leaving a long-term relationship because it wasn't a "Two-Way" situation. I did all the work and got tired of the responsibility of making it work.

It was "ALL" his fault...sorry....but it was!

true it is constant action to keep it going and I'm not talking about smurfing!

A relationship is the interaction between the two. To say that only one is responsible for what works or what doesn't would make no sense. Both parties contribute to it ... for good or ill.

Wise words indeed! Brains and good looks?? Its refreshing to
find such intellect from someone with such an
attractive ear..........!!!

It takes 2 to make a relationship work...But only one to ruin it!!!!!

agreed, to a point.

I believe if something is at fault, the one person takes responsibility for it, and vice versa...

Being in long term means times of being with a person that live life. fucks up, learns...you will have very bad times... each going through thier own process, and accepting the other...
sometimes you won't like each other... but, respect, and love will come through...

yep i agree

Rose said

"Those word "Can" be true I suppose...But sometimes people go into relationships blindly, and it actually "ends" or self-destructs for various reasons.


Blindly - is a key word for all ruined relationships

When we are about to put a decision to spend our lives together on the Life's scale ... there is no way to rely on "Maybe"

Because after it is alway "I hate you" or "If..."

Thanks Rose

This is the easiest way to view the things...

We must admit that each of us take problems-difficult personality for instance to a relationship.There are the most problematic ones, there are those who really dont make things easy, there are those who live a single life even being with someone, those who ignore the other existence...
Here, we can clearly see who's most fault is...
It must be difficult, but try to be imparcial sometimes..."am i making things easier for both of us or i'm just trying to win all the time?" But difficult home work: what's good for us?

Sometimes...you might like to do something that it's really bad for the both being...what to do? Going to bars every day when you have minor kids... you come home not ready for anyone...

Who's fault must that be?

you know this person?

It doesn't mean that either are bad people just because it didn't work. It just didn't work!