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I am the Invisible Woman....
The one you do not see....
Why? Because you won't even look at me...
Ten years ago, I would have chosen you...
Twenty years ago, You would have chosen me...
Thirty years ago we would have spent time together, time that neither of us will ever forget...
But now...you walk pass me, you ignore my presence and as each day passes I am constantly reminded that I am the Invisible Woman, the one you CHOOSE not to see......

Well, considering that you live across the pond from me it's no wonder.

I have limited vision these days.

Use it to your advantage

well i chose to look at your profile.i have to say you look stunning.im 38 and live a long way off and dont meet your criteria but if i think you are stunning then there must be more.wonderful poem but if someone as beautiful as you is finding herself invisible either you are going to the wrong places or there are a lot of people need their eyes tested. good luck

ah, the things I could do if I was invisible...

Oh...that's not what you meant...

lmao .... sure she meant something else

but it is Okay to dream

I wonder if being invisible is acquired by age or the thoughts within ones mind. is it our own vision, what we choose to see and acknowledge that gives us the sense of being invisible?

Have you seen the glass wing butterfly of South America?

Sometimes in life, that which goes seemingly unnoticed is the most beautiful ... and the most powerful.

I see you.

Rireliter said "I wonder if being invisible is acquired by age ...


Your wonder is on the right track fireliter. I've got that feeling (reading OP post) that she meant The older we get the less we get attention ...even if it a glances from a men.

I've seen you, you're nnnnot Invisible

sure cuz you see our motionless pictures ... but if you could see us, older women on the street ... in the real World ... would you take a look at us? Just wondering

and what did you see tt

yup ... Grand question

I'm happy to say sometimes in public my glances I have made a few mature women smile.... not at me but there facial expressions changeswith tha knowing acknowledement, and some do let the smile slip from their lips.

then theres those that do not take to being looked at so well either

I think the dropping the shades and looking gets the biggest response. both good and bad

two things I wanna mention here:
- for sure I'd look at you, in a way full of respect and appreciation, as the person grows his internal beauty overcomes his outer beauty, and he/she will find who evaluate this beauty, mostly people of the same generation
- older people will also look at young guys in a different way, and they will seek their friendship and partnership with people close to their age, or it might be an unbalanced relation, although it works sometimes.

I wish that young ladies learn from this thread, learn to get rid of their arrogance, to understand life and people around them, and use their chances in the right way.

yes ... as long you walk with your head up and a half of smile on your face ... being confident ...... yeasssssssssssssssss you get response

You are a very attractive woman and I could see men passing up the chancee to talk to you because they might think they would not have a chance. Some good looking women expect only Prince Charming to apply. In your case maybe you need to be the aggressor?

I guess that sucks. That kind of stuff normally happens to guys

Yes, I can imagine there are those i.e. the elderly, homeless, not physically attractive, down on their luck type of people that feel axactly the way you describe.

Make one think about how we treat people.