I watched my two Grandmothers pass over....I watched My Mother pass over and I watched My Father pass over and I dont recall seeing any one of them crying before they went.
Leaving this world the person takes on many changes if they have been ill and in pain and from what I observed it goes a bit like this...
Anger......Denial..........and then acceptance.....
If any of you have witnessed this in a loved one then you will know what I mean....
It is us that is left behind to cry.....