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My exboyfriend, who brutally ripped my heart out wants to kiss and make up. Hmm let's see, he cheated on, the woman he cheated on me with is now pregnant (she left him), and now he wants a romantic weekend to try and patch things up. What is it with some men (note: I said some not all)! Sure let's spend a romantic weekend together, and then when you do it again I can enjoy sitting on my couch with a box of kleenex crying my eyes out and being miserable! I told him NO, obviously!

Good for you! He wasnt Good enough for you in the first place..Stick with it!!! Your not missing out on anything. You have been there and done that. Who needs him! It wont take you long to find another man this one will be real and Awesome and only have eyes for you..take care..

You did the right thing saying no. He's obviously a self-centered jerk.

He got the other woman pregnant and she left him?

That speaks volumes about how great of a guy he must be!!!

And he cheated on you to get together with her and then he comes crawling back after she gives him the boot?

I'm really sorry you got hurt in all of this, but the guy is a jerk from square one.

He brutally ripped your heart out, and you’ll even talk to him at all?

Come on!

There are real men on this planet!!! Believe it or not! Try hooking up with one of them for a change.

Real men don’t do this kind of shit.

I just don't understand how he could possibly think that we could go back to where we were before after that. It astounds me.

OMG!!!!!!!!! Sounds like my ex-husband....They just have HUGE egos I guess and figure you are just sitting around waiting for them to come back.....NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some men have the mentality of loving a good challenge. They feel that since we loved them so much at one point in life, we would be willing to go back. They think that we "forgive and forget" too easily. Boy, did my ex's figure out they were soooooo wrong.

When I'm done...I'm done. Takes a long time to get me there, but once I am...it's lights out, hit the road, don't let the door hit you in the a$$.

I'm proud you didn't give in. They tear it out once, they don't stop. What an a$$. Romantic weekend together? Tell him to get to the hotel, and if you're not there in 1/2 and hour...you're NEVER GOING!

Better still, tell him to meet you at the hotel and if you're not there in half an hour, start without you.

Great reply, lol. Sorry your ex was such a jerk, like someone else said, you deserve way better than that!!

Twinkles you sound like a good woman, you dont need any grief.So listen to what Blancalatina said,because its sound advice. My motto is: When anyone or anything becomes a problem, you get rid of it.I dont go back neither.I really hope you make the right decision for your life.Things do get better in time.

Sorry to hear of your misfortune,,,I am proud that you are clever to stay away from his attempt to make you hurt more,,get well soon...you are well on you way to finding the right one,,I say this because you are willing to toss out the bad ones.
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Actually I think this part is a good idea. Tell him to make reservations at some nice posh expensive resort and tell him you will meet him there. Then let him sit there by himself when you don't show up.

I would agree except then you just keep playing a game,,better to disconnect and grow past it
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And I agree with you. My only point was to show the guy what hurt feels like since he obviously doesn't have a clue. Then again...that probably would hurt him...just piss him off a little.

I am so sorry to hear but to be honest..it's a good choice that u didnt say YES!!! if not im sure ppl from CS would kick n wake u up

Anyway, reasons why he wants to patch up wif u 1) he's dumped 2) he realised his current relationship wasnt that fruitful than urs...3) he's an asshole, assumed tht u'll be soft hearted to take him back 4) he's bored without a woman. I am sorry if i sound harsh but this kind of ppl is not worth it...if he'd cheated on u once....he would cheat on u again!! " Leopards can never change it's spots " - no matter how good he is in the near future, he'll always be the same somehow...n its good tht u're not turning back...if not u'll be extremely miserable..u've gone thru tht when he broke up wif u...u were crying away...was he there? no, he was out with another woman!! so wat the heck!!

u deserve better men out there!! Go girl :) good choice!

Oh...1 more thing..if u wanna play a prank on him e.g. game or whatever, i think it's not a good choice..cos to be honest, what do u gain? n if you play pranks etc...means u're not over him darling..leave it...n get on wif life..this kind of fella doesnt need ur time...dun waste ur time on him...enough wasted...n lastly...it doesnt reflect well on u if you play prank wif him....cos it's like a child, playing merry-go-round...

ok i'll shuddap now!! :)

Some just think that time passes by for them only

Thanks for all the good advice! He's a loser and that's not going to change soon. Of course if he'd realized before he cheated what he had, he wouldn't be trying to get it back! His loss!

That's right...too little...TOOO LATE!!!!!!!!!

I am glad that he's alone and miserable without me though! Is that a bad thing?

Afer what he did to you...NOPE...It's called Karma darlin...and he is getting his and is where he deserves to be!!!!!!!!!