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Does anyone know what the HECK happened??? Roy cancelled....I'm so sad!

Apes

say it aint so.come on roy if a woman cant trust you from the get go then you should dump her.no trust no nookie.

What???????

I got several emails from him. He is in the process of writing a book. He is suppose to send me his manuscript when it is finished. That is all I can tell you.

celina

No Way. I'm with you cran new girl must have laid down the rules. LOL

Hi Celina how are you?

Karla set him up with a woman with trust issues who I believe laid down the law about dating sites.

Well I do not want to look like a bad one here AGAIN!

I care about Roy.. we have been talking ALOT...we both feel a connection but reality took over and I know I cannot take my kids there to be with him. Also, I cannot expect him to leave his family and he having a hard time getting his birth certificate.. ok long story there.

Anyway, I seen that someone of our very own forum posters had a thing for Roy. I suggested to Roy that he IM her and I took it upon myself to contact this person and ask her right out. Sure enough she did and I though wow what a great match. For several reasons. All I asked of her is that I wanted to still be Roys friend and close to him. Like I am not going to break them apart when I am the one that brought them together. Anyway it was a hard thing for me to do as I feel really close to Roy and he is a great guy but the distance was hurting us both. Anyway I got them talking and things.. lol But Roy was being very distant with me. I called him late one night feeling distraught and missing him. They were on cam and talking and she got mad and said some things that from her was very shocking. I have been upset ever since and I think Roy has felt torn. She really disappointed me and i am sure has her reasons. I assured Roy that we are friends and I would never try to break them apart when I was one who brought them together. I just wanted to be both their friends. I was selfless and wanted same in return. I know when a new relationship starts you get lost in it. I understand. I have alot of issues racing through my head and I am looking for someone.. even went on a date. I wrote a poem and posted in one of the threads how I was happy for them.

Now Roy has once again blocked me and deleted his account. This also is part my fault as that same night he told me what she said. Because he said she said to tell you I assumed she knew he told me and asked her about it. Anyway thats where this trust thing comes into effect.

I do good and then I make mess I guess. I care about Roy. He is sweet, a special friend and has alot of advice to offer from time to time. He is very supportive! Though I have to wonder when he leaves the forums over it. Blocking me is one thing but leaving this place he loves is another.

So Roy and (you know who) please reconsider this. THis is Roys place of support and his friends are here. HE is a big part of the forums. Also, you cannot have a relationship without trust. Just does not work. Trust is earned and can be. Both of you have been together for a short term.

Why am I posting this all.. well Roy is not talking to me and I hate to see this happen. If I know you at all Roy you are coming in and reading so please think about what i said. I also hope your other half can see from this I am no threat.

Take care Roy and Hugs
Karla

WOW!!!!!!!!! This is like a really BAD soap opera. An advise to any of you people, when ever you find someone PLEASE KEEP IT TO YOURSELF!!!!! Whatever is between a couple has to stay like that for your own good!!!

MISS YOU ROY!!!!! DO NOT GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yami.

P.S. Please note this is my personal opinion and have not be directed to anyone in particular.

Wow Karla. That's heavy.


Pete

hey roy come back to us we miss ya


love laurie

"Karla set him up with a woman with trust issues who I believe laid down the law about dating sites."

Hmmmm? Remind me not to get Karla to set up me up with any women. (ha ha)

The last thing I need is a partner with trust issues!

Hope things work out for you Roy! Best Wishes!

Well sincerety.. I agree.. Roy and I made a mistake posting it.. and we have made it really quiet that we are still talking. Its been nice. No one interferring. I tried to do the right thing and helped him find someone. Roy does not need to leave the forums over it.

Sincerety i will tell you I do not need to made to feel worse about this.. I have enough I am dealing with. Roy and I are close but one person can only take so much. I am not perfect and have never claimed to be. I am well aware of your opinion and yes that was so directed at me.

We have had this conversation before. This is my only avenue to Roy other than he did email me about this. If this is where i have to talk to Roy to get him to smarten up and see reason that i will. If you or anyone else does not like this particular soap opera.. CHANGE THE CHANNEL!

Well sincerety.. I agree.. Roy and I made a mistake posting it.. and we have made it really quiet that we are still talking. Its been nice. No one interferring. I tried to do the right thing and helped him find someone. Roy does not need to leave the forums over it.

Sincerety i will tell you I do not need to made to feel worse about this.. I have enough I am dealing with. Roy and I are close but one person can only take so much. I am not perfect and have never claimed to be. I am well aware of your opinion and yes that was so directed at me.

We have had this conversation before. This is my only avenue to Roy other than he did email me about this. If this is where i have to talk to Roy to get him to smarten up and see reason that i will. If you or anyone else does not like this particular soap opera.. CHANGE THE CHANNEL!

Jerry Springer is never gonna run out of material!

Heavy it is.. smoothering me.. lol ty Pete

he will be back i doubt if it starts like this that he will put up with it for long

he'll come back and say it was fun while it lasted lol

hope i am wrong and they get it straghtened out but history has shown me that people with trust issues ussually can not be trusted


but what do i know

A man's gotta do what a man's gotta do. Miss him much. But this is obviously how he needs to handle his business. Trust issues or not, private is always good.

Ty adj4u those words made me feel better.. I agree with what you have to say. NO one should have to give up things or friend to prove trust to another.

I know Roy loves everyone here.. always talking about cs and all his friends.

You know I do have feelings and yes keeping things private is a good thing to a degree. Deal here is most people on here know about roy and me. I was respectful not to bring the other party into this. I am hoping from this Roys friends are going to contact him and make him see some reason or he will come on here and read and see for himself.

This is not some made up soap opera or Jerry Springer show.. ever hear if you have nothing nice to say ..well say nothing at all.

If anyone is reading this thread and not liking it or shaking their heads at it .. I am sry I am not a perfect being.. just worried about Roy!

well i did not realize that this effected you pesonally had no clue

would have wrote what i wrote regardless

hope things go good for both of you