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Here in the U.S., some men are afraid of us women who are different, too. I have more spirit and sometimes talk more than many men can handle. Many men, in general, don't understand free spirits? Let's here from you men on this theory, please.

I think you are fine just the way you are.

Hippychic,

Normal is relative... you're personna is not strange or scary to this hippy...

If anything is wrong it's geographic

Hippy chic....even if you were just a chick....minus the hippy

you would be pushing to find a man on the same wave length

hey it shouldnt matter what clothes you wear, if the guy cant except you for being you then thats his problem and hes not worth the trouble in my opinion

Hmmmm, nothing strange about you sweety, I should let my hair down once in a while I guess...

Let me share a message I thankfully received from a fortune cookie at a very impressionable age:

"Nature forms us for ourselves, not for others. To be, not to seem."

Ain't it true.

Never stop being yourself to meet someone. I'd wrather be alone and be myself than be someone I'm not.

Just be yourself, babe. If that's what you like to wear, then by all means wear it! Don't let a man judge you by the kind of clothes you wear.

In the town I live in, I get judged too by the way I dress. I dress in mini-skirts, low rider jeans, low cut shirts/blouses, and high heels. And I wear these all the time (when I don't is when I workout, staying home, or going camping/beach/lake). But I'm comfortable in it and people in this town talk about me because of how I dress (men AND women!).

Don't worry about what other people think or say. Stay the way you are. Don't let anyone change you.

Move to Cornwall.. most of us look dress like that

Oo I just read your profile.. seriously cast your net in Cornwall. You sound like you would fit perfectly.

Your a fabulous looking lady ,,thats for sure.
It ain't yer dress..hell a woman can turn up in a dustbin bag today and get away with it.

I have old aged hippy friends,,they can be hard work as they think and speak obliquely..that can be difficult at times.

Or you have fried yer brain with good old fashioned Californian sunshine and strawberry fields and don't realise your on a completely different planet to others.

Talk to me..see what happens?

I love ecentric women!! I'm an old hippy. Sure wish you were older, and closer.

oops...just read your profile, I'm also about I'm also W-a-y too short

I guess I should move to Cornwall too

Corwall for me, too!! SanFrancisco is no longer hippy haven. Only rich homosexuals I need a new hippy hangout!!

I loathe, despise this innocuous , vague yet narrow minded term "normal"; it is totally relative; no one or group has an exclusive patent or copyright on it, not even these bizarre "fundamentalist" of any religion who are always more mental than not,( is it any wonder that they all need funds...)
I have always thought it a shame that there never was a "Hippie State" or small country, other than in one's mind...but then again, if there was, I guess that it would be under siege, under attack all the time simply because it would be "different".
Many of the old Hippie communes have turned to organic farm communities , especially in California and a few other States...I'm glad that something of it all has survived; it leaves people with more choices on how to live and be "normal" within themselves away from the cesspools of what the majority label as "normal". All societies need what Monty Python announced on many of their shows:" and now for something completely different..." %) I hate conformity.

headed for Cornwell as well