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Remember everybody Please.

Weird and Kinky like beauty are in the eye of the beholder.

What is one persons' cake is another persons' poison.

If they ask they are being Honest and upfront about there personality (You barely know them) Or they trust you and are seeing how far you will go(You have known them for a while)and if there is more there than the misionary position.

If they are new and you are offended then kick them out. If you have known them a while and they wish to push the boundaries at least talk to them and find out more before you kick them to the road.

I would like to add you can't invite people to post on a thread like this and then sensor them for it.

If you sensor people for it, you will cease to get posts.

I agree with Lenababi - if I bring home a man and he pulls out a vibrator I would wonder if he is using on his self or has used it on himself - first of all. Secondly I would wonder why he brought it along hmmmm, I would wonder if he could get it up or not. Thirdly, you would think a guy like that would find out in advance if the female was even interested in something like that and not just assume she is before bring such a thing.
My thing about it that whole thing with Lenabai and her date was wrong the way he did it.

I myself wouldn't let him use his on me that's for sure, never know where it has been. I would hand him mine, I know where it has been.

Well to you Paulbearer & TechnicalEcstasy - I guess I have an attitude also and very closed mind because there is NO WAY IN HELL some guy is sticky anything in my ass and I will not wear a figurin strap on either to *uck him in the ass. So if you two think I am closed minded and have an attitude about it you would be right and proud of my attitude also when it comes to that. And there are no golden showers for me, no one is pissing on me thats for sure. I do some kinky things but I draw the line to alot of it.

Also Paulbearer & TechnicalEcstasy some of us don't need that kind of kinky stuff to have an orgasm, maybe you two do but I sure don't.

OMG I thought DP stood for Dr. Pepper. That sounds pretty good right now actually. I will never call it DP again though.
I do think this gentleman suitor should reread his manual on dating etiquette. First of all, you don't bring toys on a date. (What ever happen to flowers and candy?) Especially to the home of a pretty woman. If she has needs she will fill you in when she feels it is appropriate. It is more than just RUDE to assume she invited you over for something most would consider an unnatural act. At least until she has got to know you well enough to have you over for dinner a few times.
I hope you do not let such a beast destroy your faith in men. I am sure he was just high and for some reason thought he was making an episode of "Girls Gone Wild." Really I would like to ask him just what he was thinking. I suppose he could have put the vibe to good use by placing it in the hole in his head, and making a clip for America's Most Stupidiest Idiots.

Well said Man!



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wow i really think i should get some sleep. way too much going on in here. perhaps another drink

id say if you are going to pull your own vib out then you are not extremely close-minded. good for you.

i think lenababi's post sounds like she avoids anything that isnt plain vanilla and cant let go of inhibitions for some sad reason. not because she wont let some guy(or 2) do a DP on her.

and id bet money that Paulbearer hit it right on the head.

i dont need kinky to have an orgasm. but i dont get offended and judgemental if someone else does.

just for the record.... i dont think one needs to be high in order to enjoy adventurous sex. and just because you consider something like this "an unnatural act", doesnt mean "most" do.

You say in your post
"Especially to the home of a pretty woman."

So it's ok to bring what you consider inappropriate to the home of what you would consider NOT a pretty woman? Or not bring flowers or candy to the home of what you consider not a pretty woman?

How well known is the person are we talking about who is coming into someone's home?

I only meet people in public until I know them well enough to believe they are either not crazy, violent, a theif, or just a potential problem.

I only give out my cell phone number, not home, until I know them.

It may sound overly cautious, but I like my house and where I live, I have a son (17, but still my kid) that I have to think about his safety and also about his respect for me.

So.... by the time they are invited into my home, I don't think there is much chance I'd be throwing them out.

By the way, these kinds of toys should be presented ONLY IN THE PACKAGE AS BRAND NEW! And I'd think that it would be someone I was already intimate with before they would bring out toys.

I agree with you, you have to be cautious now a days, it scare me the way some people think.

Maybe I am abit to cautious but, No man usually even finds out where I live until we have got to know each other really good and it has been up to 6 mos before before a guy found out where I lived because, I would always go to his place. Also they never meet my daughter right away either I didnt need her to get hurt if she got attached also. Now she is grown and off to school so don't have to worry about that to much. But I still have to watch out for my own self. I also have went as far as writting all there info down name, vechile type, where they live because if he was putting on a front and a whack job at least they would know the last person I was with and can go after him.

HA You aren't the only one who provides information to someone else. Unless it is a very casual meeting at a coffee shop, I try to tell my best friend who I'm going out with and when I should be back.

I agree, letting your kids meet someone is just setting yourself up for a lot of questions and explanations.

Good for you!

Well sorry that's what it had sounded like to me when you where responding to lenabay's post, that you where judging her.

So glad you wasnt judging her and glad you didnt get offended by my response.

Sorry

HA A closer look ! HA
Keeping her out for coffee.

Please,
No one take what I said as 'personal.' I do not mean to "slam" anyones sexual orientations, desires, looks, or anything. The letter was satirical humor and meant to be nothing more. It was tongue in cheek. Please do not read more into it than was intended. "pretty" was merely an adjective. I did not mean it was appropriate to do it to anyone that is not.
Also, sexual orientation. Whatever blows your skirt up. Again, it was satire. Consenting adults are free to do what they want. The letter was meant to be silly and satirical. Nothing more.

I think it will be ok

You and me both!!! But then I read what "DP" stood for...

Just something I came across:

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