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YOU KNOW THE CALLIBUR OF WOMAN YOU COME ACCROSS ON THIS SITE IS NOT ALL ITS CRACKED UP TO BE ,MOST SEEM TO BE PLAYING GAMES ,OR SO FICKLE YOU DONT WEATHER THEY ARE COMING OR GOING,BEING A GOOD HONEST GUY JUST DOES NOT SEEM TO PAY OFF,THERE FOR I AM INCLINED TO SAY FUCK IT ,AND TREAT THEM THE WAY THEY SHOULD BE TREATED ,INSTEAD OF HOW THEY SAY THEY WANT TO BE TREATED.FALLAS WHAT DO YOU THINK?

We aren't all the same-DON'T get discouraged. Please don't play the game either, then you will be just like them, that you speak of!

I think there are two sides to any story. I don't know about other women but I know myself and I am not even sure I could play the games people talk about. I don't know what kind of women you are use to dealing with but it must have burned you very badly. I think we all have times in our life when we feel like giving up. I myself had such an experience a few years ago when I lost my family. I loved them very much and did not want to believe that they were gone. And yes the idea of giving up did cross my mind but I think it was more of my way of not wanting to deal with the situation. I did though deal with the situation and I found that life goes on, the river does not always flow in the direction that I am headed sometimes you have to paddle to stay afloat. I could cry and whine about what has happened to me but that would make me a victim, which I choose not to be. Instead I see myself as a witness as to what LIFE has to offer. Do not generalize women because isn't being fair. Not all people are the same, men or women..........You can live with some women and also there are some it is better to live without. I hope life improves for you sometimes something as simple as a change in attitude will accomplish what you seek.

Hey bro I want to say i agree with alot of what you said...and I know there are men that do the same shit..but you know we will never get know where if we just play games...if were real, kharma shall surely deal us out ours..hand in there bro..I just went through some shit too, Im tired of it, but I know I havent got any choice if I want o find a good woman..
Jerome

no matter where you go there will always be people who say one thing and do another

I thought of giving up many a time. I thought of trying to be an a-hole, because I had seen so many women with that type of guy. I thought of doing a complete 180 on who I am.

I never did

I understand your frustrations rich. But if you were to give up, you could miss out on possibly the best thing that could come your way. Be yourself, don't allow these frustrations to consume you. Perservierence, and patience may seem hard to do at times, but in the end it pays off. I've finally met someone that I'm very intrested in, and seeing where it will go. I don't think I would've met her if I would've giving up.

Best of luck. Things will go your way.

Shaun i agree if you give up how you gonna know what coulda been

I read your profile Rich and you are looking for a very special person. That takes time and of course you are going to have to pull some weeds before you get to that flower.


Good luck

Hi Everyone and also I have been there to the point to where I wanted to give up and one day I decided to get on this website and I think I have found the right person and she keeps me happy and she is there for me, so dont give up and just give it time....

Rich, sorry that you have met more wolves in sheeps clothing than you have sheep. I know that a lot of people hide behind their computer and tell you what you want to hear than change it up when it comes to being real. I'm sick of it too. What would you do when you meet the 'one' and you treat her bad thinking she's like every other woman on here and then when it's too late, you wise up and realize that you made a big mistake. Had the chance, but so filled with anger from another that you couldn't see what you had? Don't let anyone else have that much control over you. You own your feelings and decide what your line is and can stop anyone from crossing it. It's your decision to feel, live and do. Remember that next time. You choose. Forget the ones that are playing games and move on. Keep going and trying. The moment you give up is when you lose.
Giggles1

YUP,All the time, my only problem with that is I hate cats. lol

that type of attitude will get you every where, don't forget every one can read these posts- so i hope any poor girl you try and chat up next looks these up so she can see the real you.

guys like you are clowns.

not all woman for the same,that is like a woman saying all man are the same,when they are not,everyone is not a like we all are differt.do not give up hope just keep going until you find the right 1 for you.just when you are about to give up hope is when you find the right 1.it is like the old saying goes knock and it will be open and don't knock and the door will never be open.you cannot judge all by what 1 or a few does.you have to take them 1 by 1 as they are,until you find the right 1 for you

The only thing I want to say to you " richgrandroyal" is;

NEVER GIVE UP!

And just because they treat you like shit, and spit in your face, sleep around behind your back, lie, and trample on your heart and feelings!

That does not give you the right nor the go ahead to treat them the same!

If you are a GENTLEMAN by that code no matter what!

That's what's wrong with the world today, alot of men, have no honor....

Thank You, there are still a few of us out there!

Men of Chivalry, and Courtly Love!

Never Give Up!

I just have a feeling that there to many weeds on here. To get to the flower sometime you have to pull them. But we are on here you just have to find us.


justsusie

I am not a fellow but I wish to be allowed to respond to your statement. First and far most you have never went out with me secondly you need to meet a virtuous woman such as myself. Thirdly baby you are choosing the wrong woman.....I love being awoken with kisses. I love being treated like royalty, I love to be spoil.......I love spoiling someone who I know is really crazy about me....

Again I say you are seeking the wrong woman sweety...There are still just a few of us left Our price is far above the price of rubies....take care Pam

give up ?>.........dude i have tried scuiside!

Yes sometime I do because I came across meeting the same kind of men who just play games. But I hear to tell you that everyone is not like that. But I haven't met anyone yet that don't play games, so I decide to give it anoyher try.

Obviously you were about as good at it as you are at spelling it. (ha ha)