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What are your thoughts of dating someone in the Military? for it? against it? what?

Personally, I couldnt do it. My friends who are military wives, they have such a hard time every deployment, every move etc. My dad was a military brat, he loved it. Just not for me. I dont know that I could move that much. Although... love does some tricky things, so I wont say never. Because ya just never know, right? :)

I would love to hear what the ladies have to say about this one!! ..... Im with you Marine

joy555 is all for it!!! She sends you a kiss

I would love to date a military man

OH PICK ME!

PICK ME!!

yes go for it i did it for 19 years

I'm all yours come and get me!!

The depends on the man inside... The uniform is attractive, however, its his mind that is important to me...

Being in the military is very hard on relationships, trust me I know,

It takes a special woman to be a military wife and no disrespect to other women, but some women cant handle it, my ex wife was one who couldn't handle it, so I got out... but she couldn't handle me being home all the time either, hence the EX-wife

So I went back in

military guy. most of the ones ive talked to seem to have a good head on their shoulders.

so yea i would.lol

Agreed! I hear alot about the women not knowing how to handle that type of life! Sad that is....

Couldn't do it.

I've dated miliatry men.
I tend to like a clean, well mannered man & often they fit the bill.
They just as often can turn out to be overgrown children or bitter bullies.
The uniform is just the dressing, not the main ingredient.
If you start with a good ingredient, you'll get a wonderful end result.

:)

I think dating or marrying a man in the military is a very positive element in most cases. Men in the military learn discipline, responsibility and learn to cover each other's backs. If they find a woman who can relate to this in everyday life, both of them will be very blessed.

For some Marines, mail call was a moment of disparity. I’m an ex Marine (Paris Island). While in boot camp, I got to see first hand at some of the reactions of my buddies as many of them lost there love ones. Mind you, this was only in boot camp. Then you had those that were sent overseas. Many of them had to wait at least six months or more before they were able to get back home and see there love ones. After a week or two, they would leave again. This sort of reminds me of one of those long distance relationships. Some last and others don’t. A Serviceman or not, it’s very difficult to remain in love with someone that is not there on a regular basis. Hey lonely Marine, Semper Fidelis and let no one, absolutely no one tread on you.

well, you know my position on it, all u have to do is say the word