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This is mostly a ploy to just say that you are on his mind all the time, but there'll never be a meeting. I've had this happened once and I never want to do that again. That's why I choose to stick to dating men that are in the same state as I am and not in another country. Long-distances relations never went well for me before.

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He is pulling your leg. I can't count how many times I have heard the same lines, but never see any action. Those words never come reality. They are only words to keep stringing you along. Be careful. Don't get attached. You are only setting yourself up for a heartache. Good Luck to you.

Internet dating is an illusion to a certain extent. It's just not real until you meet face to face. Don't get

sucked in by the romantic part of it all. To me, if a guy told me that after we met, we would never part again

would give me the creeps. How does he know? He doesn't. He can no longer get msn?

He had gotten it at one time or another. It makes no sense. Just be careful, because broken hearts take

a long time to mend....

hi everyone ,

i started this post in july and i said i will keep you up dated.

well i told guy that i wasnt sending him mail and if he wanted to meet me then next time he emails me give me a date of when he wants to date because i am not repling any more as am not willing to wait to a person thats just mails me.

guess what he sent me a photo with the flight booking and h wants to meet in december in london.

there is only one problem. he keeps saying we should get a doubleroom in the hotel and not waste a single minute.

i told him i dont do this with any man on first meeting how ever many miles he has travelled or how much money he spends.

he thinks am being unreasonable for saying that.

do you think im wrong and acting wrongly towards him?

NOOOOOOOOOOOOO...Until you meet you don't even know for sure if there is any chemistry between the two of you..or what he is like yet in RL...HE is being rather presumtuous by making those statements and trying to pressure you into something you don't feel comfortable with...HMMMMMMMMMM...it would be a red flag to me...Perhaps that's all he is after!!!!!!!!!

thats true and i said to him it looks like you are coming just for sex to want a double room. but he says why would i travel so far [as he is from sibera] for sex as i can go out at night and get that from where i live.

No babe, your not wrong in feeling that at all. Stay strong and continue to be true to the person you are, dont let his guilt or ideas sway your mind...pls becareful!!!!!

Ok, first off... that whole doubling up in a hotel room is crap.
He either respects your choice to look after yourself or can walk.
If you think for a second that he wont act this way through out things, you are being the fool.
If he's starting things with control issues... he will continue with them.

Either he can fly out & meet you, all nice & civilized like... or he can't.
The rest is udder silliness.

Want more for yourself. Ask yourself if u honestly think he is waiting for you.
It is the mystery and the distance that keeps you tied to him.
Love for what you hope can be a realty, not really him.

There are so many men that I am sure would never ask you to wait, they would there for you.

This is very true.

Also another thing:
just because they have a picture doesn't always mean that's what they look like now. I've had this happen about 3 separate dates I had. One guy, he said his picture was over 5 years ago, after he met me (because he was about 50lbs heavier, dyed his hair, hair was too long for me, and grew a mustache). At first I didn't know who the heck he was when I met him. He had to remind me....So, you still have to be careful of who you meet, even if they have a picture.

sounds like a plan to me...

This is a joke; someone is playing as if with a yo-yo and someone wants to be a yo-yo, right. Lady, wake up; your life could be at risk...it never sounded right when you started this thread, and if anything it's worse now...

I speak from experience when I say move on. I too talked to a man on-line for months over the summer he kept saying he was coming out to see me, I was the one he just knew it, he had a feeling about me......, yada yada yada! He lives in Newfoundland I live in Bc during the summer he was working in Ontario! ( a lonely women was I... yikes I giggled ,I dreamed I ate it all up). Don't get me wrong, I believe he is a nice guy. He is just a guy making promises he can't keep..... He never came...... He didn't show, he didn't call........ he didn't e-mail me?.... He disapeared for months.....

A few weeks ago we intercepted each other on-line, he asked me what I was doing or what I had been up too? I told him I had gone a few dates...he logged off. I called him he will not answer and today I left him a in your face message calling him out what gives. I checked my mail he has opened the message but I haven't heard anything?. it hurt of course but to move on you have to experience the pain of being let down, of your own expectations of someone else

You are beautiful!and amazing and you don't have to wait! Live you life move on Honey,

cheers Detra

I do not think you should wait. Like you say you have not met him.
Has he said he would come to visit you.
What more do you actually know about him other than what he wrote in his profile. Is it all fact?.
If you wait will he actually come?.
Seems like he is leading you on. You are waiting for the unknown.

You need to be blunt and give him a time to meet you. If he cannot commit to a time cease all contact with him. Sounds to good to be true
Mean while go ahead and meet other males until you find some one who you will meet face to face and be worth while waiting for.