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Men....do you expect sex on the first date?

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Men....do you expect sex on the first date?

Posted: Jul 8, 2007, 3:01 PM CST
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But, a woman doesnt think any less of a man who goes for it on the first night. There are still a lot of double standards.
i agree well saidyay
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karen1973
Southampton, England UK
Posted: Jul 8, 2007, 3:02 PM CST
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I understand where you're coming from

To me, "Lust is Everything" so if I like them enough on the first date I like to get in there and blow their minds then once they're sexually addicted reel them in like a big fish for a long term relationship and it does work quite well sometimes

Plus, they soon fall in love with personality when they're getting bombarded with mindblowing sex all the time

Not sure I should be giving my best secrets out on here though but too late now ...

A woman after my own heart!!!

Whatever works!

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Posted: Jul 8, 2007, 3:02 PM CST
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well as other people mentioned before if the chemistry is there it will work...i was with my ex for 5 years and we slept together first date...it all depends on your perceptions. if u keep thinking that u may miss out on something as u cant see past the fact she slept with u straight away
Well said, I slept with the blokes I had long term relationships with on the first date but didn't really want to ruin my innocent innocent image. But, think I may have just ruined it anyway with the post I just posted so may as well say it after all laugh
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karen1973
Southampton, England UK
Posted: Jul 8, 2007, 3:02 PM CST
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i agree well said
Thank you sunshine! I stand for the rights of women of the UK!!!

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Posted: Jul 8, 2007, 3:05 PM CST
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A woman after my own heart!!!

Whatever works!

thumbs up This is it, lust first then work on the domestic chores and love thing later thumbs up
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JohnnyG643
Stevensville, Maryland USA
Posted: Jul 8, 2007, 3:05 PM CST
I've never considered it before. First date sex? That's kind of creepy. And if she's willing to sleep with me on a whim, who else has she slept with? Was she responsible enough to use protection? Nah. Not for me.

First date kisses, now that's another story. Sex is best saved for the third date at the earliest far as I'm concerned.
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Posted: Jul 8, 2007, 3:16 PM CST
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I've never considered it before. First date sex? That's kind of creepy. And if she's willing to sleep with me on a whim, who else has she slept with? Was she responsible enough to use protection? Nah. Not for me.

First date kisses, now that's another story. Sex is best saved for the third date at the earliest far as I'm concerned.
so what if u sleep with her on the third date she wont be the same person as if u slept with her on the first date?confused
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rwantin
Costa Mesa, California USA
Posted: Jul 8, 2007, 3:27 PM CST
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so what if u sleep with her on the third date she wont be the same person as if u slept with her on the first date?
Well, she'd likely be a week or two older? grin
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EnGee
Lindsay, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 8, 2007, 3:41 PM CST
Most men don't EXPECT sex on the first date.

That doesn't mean the idea doesn't appeal though.

Why should a woman be thought of any less after the first meeting rather than the third?

How can somebody condone a woman on the first date, yet they are a willing partner themselves?

It's all in the chemistry, oh and double standards.

Enjoy.



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karen1973
Southampton, England UK
Posted: Jul 8, 2007, 3:43 PM CST
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Most men don't EXPECT sex on the first date.

That doesn't mean the idea doesn't appeal though.

Why should a woman be thought of any less after the first meeting rather than the third?

How can somebody condone a woman on the first date, yet they are a willing partner themselves?

It's all in the chemistry, oh and double standards.

Enjoy.



Nice answer!
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efesec
Izmir, Aegean Turkey
Posted: Jul 8, 2007, 3:47 PM CST
especially on the first date?

it is so hot i think...

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JohnnyG643
Stevensville, Maryland USA
Posted: Jul 8, 2007, 4:13 PM CST
I'd actually know her somewhat by then and she'd know me. At the very least we wouldn't be going on first impressions by then.
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Mummy
Drogheda, Louth Ireland
Posted: Jul 8, 2007, 5:02 PM CST
very interesting results here!
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zenether
Gauteng, Johannesburg South Africa
Posted: Jul 19, 2007, 2:32 AM CST
professor dancing banana cheering I strongly believe that both parties should wait first. It is the first date and one must be com4table with the next one.
If the guy is persitent..then well professor is there 2 lecture him.
Banana and cheering ia also there..coz they agree with professor. Learn each other better at first..relax and the next thing will happen by it self. I mean a woman has her pride. We dont want 2 feel used...or being taken 4 a ride. a weekend special..or a flight by night. We want 2 feel and treated like a lady.

So i would say sex on the first date is really out of the question and is a NO!! NO!!
ZENETHER
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karen1973
Southampton, England UK
Posted: Jul 19, 2007, 2:43 AM CST
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I strongly believe that both parties should wait first. It is the first date and one must be com4table with the next one.
If the guy is persitent..then well professor is there 2 lecture him.
Banana and cheering ia also there..coz they agree with professor. Learn each other better at first..relax and the next thing will happen by it self. I mean a woman has her pride. We dont want 2 feel used...or being taken 4 a ride. a weekend special..or a flight by night. We want 2 feel and treated like a lady.

So i would say sex on the first date is really out of the question and is a NO!! NO!!
ZENETHER
I think as long as both parties go into it with their eyes open, then sex on a first date can be fine. It is not a matter of a woman feeling used, I am sure men can feel used too.

And you can still be treated like a lady too.wine
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Joe19
Roma, Queensland Australia
Posted: Jul 19, 2007, 3:51 AM CST
no but if thay forse me im willing heheh
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Dknew
Loretto, Kentucky USA
Posted: Jul 19, 2007, 4:54 AM CST
I need a 1st date before I can give an answer laugh
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bobinbozeman
Bozeman, Montana USA
Posted: Jul 19, 2007, 4:54 AM CST
my thought's on that is. depends on the woman and how things go on the first date but with me not on the first date a heavy sexual kiss good night will do just fine n a hug and a call saying that there home safly one nighter's is just a dream fore me but real life nope i'll let the woman deside if she wants to sleep with me or not.peace peace peace peace peace peace peace
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cybahippy
Centre, Centre France
Posted: Jul 19, 2007, 5:02 AM CST
What's a date????????wine cool
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lovaboy
Watch This Space....!!!!...., England UK
Posted: Jul 19, 2007, 5:08 AM CST
i expect it when i click my damn fingers.......rolling on the floor laughing sticking out tongue
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