Does he love me He says he feels nothing

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venizelos balzan, Majjistral Malta

Sun Jul 8, 2007 4:12 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

Ok people answer this pls.

What if your meeting someone for around 7 mths. sex involved, and he tells you, your not my type of woman ,but the connection between us is amazing in sex, Never had this connection before. Then tells me since there is no commitment between us you may meet anyone you want,That is the true freedom,But since he doesnt want commitment I do meet others and tell him so. The questions asked after .Like what did you do , etc.
He tells me he meets other beautiful women,But he says that he cant even kiss them,Coz im on his mind.

He doesnt want commitment with me . So does this guy feel anything for me.He says he doesnt.

Really hurt and I really love this guy.

Ojazos Cancun Mexico

Sun Jul 8, 2007 4:14 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

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Ok people answer this pls.

What if your meeting someone for around 7 mths. sex involved, and he tells you, your not my type of woman ,but the connection between us is amazing in sex, Never had this connection before. Then tells me since there is no commitment between us you may meet anyone you want,That is the true freedom,But since he doesnt want commitment I do meet others and tell him so. The questions asked after .Like what did you do , etc.
He tells me he meets other beautiful women,But he says that he cant even kiss them,Coz im on his mind.

He doesnt want commitment with me . So does this guy feel anything for me.He says he doesnt.

Really hurt and I really love this guy.

if you realy love him...go for him.....but...myself....bye bye!!!

constanza Los Angeles, California USA

Sun Jul 8, 2007 4:15 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

you are masochistic to continue this so called relationship; for the sake of the little self esteem you might still have left, end it. good luck

venizelos balzan, Majjistral Malta

Sun Jul 8, 2007 4:16 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

I believe in time.Patience for the good and the bad.Hope is all I have .

Ron43221 Columbus, Ohio USA

Sun Jul 8, 2007 4:18 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

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you are masochistic to continue this so called relationship; for the sake of the little self esteem you might still have left, end it. good luck

well, that about sums up what I was going to say...

venizelos balzan, Majjistral Malta

Sun Jul 8, 2007 4:20 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

Thank you.But do you think he loves me.

samesizefeet here Malta

Sun Jul 8, 2007 4:41 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

In response to:

Ok people answer this pls.

What if your meeting someone for around 7 mths. sex involved, and he tells you, your not my type of woman ,but the connection between us is amazing in sex, Never had this connection before. Then tells me since there is no commitment between us you may meet anyone you want,That is the true freedom,But since he doesnt want commitment I do meet others and tell him so. The questions asked after .Like what did you do , etc.
He tells me he meets other beautiful women,But he says that he cant even kiss them,Coz im on his mind.

He doesnt want commitment with me . So does this guy feel anything for me.He says he doesnt.

Really hurt and I really love this guy.

put ur foot down girl.

its obvious his using you for sex, u deserve more.

stop meetin him and meet someone who dont just look at u as a sexslave.

Oslojente Olso Norway

Sun Jul 8, 2007 4:41 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

Not if he's stringing you along like that...

karen1973 Southampton, Hampshire, England UK

Sun Jul 8, 2007 4:42 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

Sounds to me that he is just trying to keep his options open. I was in a relationship just like this one, and I ended up getting very hurt. Cut him out. It will be hard, but you will eventually look back on it and realise you made the right decision. He knows you love him, and he is using that to just keep you where he wants you.

Good luck.

Mummy Drogheda, Louth Ireland

Sun Jul 8, 2007 4:47 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

In response to:

Ok people answer this pls.

What if your meeting someone for around 7 mths. sex involved, and he tells you, your not my type of woman ,but the connection between us is amazing in sex, Never had this connection before. Then tells me since there is no commitment between us you may meet anyone you want,That is the true freedom,But since he doesnt want commitment I do meet others and tell him so. The questions asked after .Like what did you do , etc.
He tells me he meets other beautiful women,But he says that he cant even kiss them,Coz im on his mind.

He doesnt want commitment with me . So does this guy feel anything for me.He says he doesnt.

Really hurt and I really love this guy.

from my experience.....the men always want the details....but when you ask the same in return....they never tell......

make up your own mind......but i'd give him the elbow....

good luck!

n
x

johnmarkus toronto Canada

Sun Jul 8, 2007 10:05 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

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Thank you.But do you think he loves me.

How can he love you when you are telling him you date other men.

NO he doesn't love ya or he would get bent when you told him you were seeing others.

You are a lay thats all.

Paulbearer Houston, Texas USA

Sun Jul 8, 2007 11:21 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

Well, the guy isnt lying to her. The sex is great and thats all he's really interested in. If she likes it too, why should they stop? So long as both parties know whats going on, whats the problem?

HzChld Somewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA

Sun Jul 8, 2007 11:43 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

In response to:

Ok people answer this pls.

What if your meeting someone for around 7 mths. sex involved, and he tells you, your not my type of woman ,but the connection between us is amazing in sex, Never had this connection before. Then tells me since there is no commitment between us you may meet anyone you want,That is the true freedom,But since he doesnt want commitment I do meet others and tell him so. The questions asked after .Like what did you do , etc.
He tells me he meets other beautiful women,But he says that he cant even kiss them,Coz im on his mind.

He doesnt want commitment with me . So does this guy feel anything for me.He says he doesnt.

Really hurt and I really love this guy.

What I see is an open relationship here between the 2 of you. It sounds to me as if he wants his cake and eat it too...and if/when someone else comes along he is free to go to the other person, as well as you having the same option. When/if the time comes that he finds another, his conscience will be clear because, in his thinking...he has not lied to you and therefore his actions are justified. When a man shows you himself the first time...believe him. It sounds as if you are involved now with your heart, whereas he is only involved on a physical level. It seems to me that the decision you have to make is...Keep things the way they are or move on. You cannot make someone change their mind about things and if you are hanging on to him hoping things will change, I am afraid you are in for a big heartache. I wish you the very best with whatever decision you make.

venizelos balzan, Majjistral Malta

Sun Jul 15, 2007 1:30 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

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What I see is an open relationship here between the 2 of you. It sounds to me as if he wants his cake and eat it too...and if/when someone else comes along he is free to go to the other person, as well as you having the same option. When/if the time comes that he finds another, his conscience will be clear because, in his thinking...he has not lied to you and therefore his actions are justified. When a man shows you himself the first time...believe him. It sounds as if you are involved now with your heart, whereas he is only involved on a physical level. It seems to me that the decision you have to make is...Keep things the way they are or move on. You cannot make someone change their mind about things and if you are hanging on to him hoping things will change, I am afraid you are in for a big heartache. I wish you the very best with whatever decision you make.

Hi

You are spot on .I am in love with this guy.Last night I gave him the last chance to see if he might feel a little bit of something for me.but no as if he said. he told me many things that hurt me so I just said ...... this I deserve better your just a ..... like most of the others. I told him its over go..... someone else . I waited and gave it time hoping he might feel as i do, but i WAS WRONG very wrong.
Thanks For your great post very right indeed.
wont be seeing hime again.

Venizelos

littlewriter close-ish to belfast UK

Sun Jul 15, 2007 1:33 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

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Hi

You are spot on .I am in love with this guy.Last night I gave him the last chance to see if he might feel a little bit of something for me.but no as if he said. he told me many things that hurt me so I just said ...... this I deserve better your just a ..... like most of the others. I told him its over go..... someone else . I waited and gave it time hoping he might feel as i do, but i WAS WRONG very wrong.
Thanks For your great post very right indeed.
wont be seeing hime again.

Venizelos

sorry to hear you got suckered in by a bastard.

not all men are like this, good luck for the future!

sarah xxx

azulsky Chicago, Illinois USA

Sun Jul 15, 2007 1:48 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

Come on girl!!!

It is clear, he is looking for the great sex u always give him. And for you it is not fair bc obviosly u are falling in love and he does not.

I am sorry to tell but he is not interested on u as his dreamed girl, he is looking at you as the girl he can fuck without commitments, and please honey he is a big liar could you believe he didn´t touch any of those girls he met..come on!!!!...he is a man!!...all men do not think, they only act (even when they are married, so please think about it)

If you really love yourself LEAVE HIM. then if he is really interested on you he will come back and it will be the correct time to ask him for commitment...Right now it is impossible, bc he knows u were accepting the conditions of the game both were playing.

Darling it is time to finish the game...i am telling you this from the deepest of my heart.

Good luck!!

johnmarkus toronto Canada

Sun Jul 15, 2007 1:54 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

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Hi

You are spot on .I am in love with this guy.Last night I gave him the last chance to see if he might feel a little bit of something for me.but no as if he said. he told me many things that hurt me so I just said ...... this I deserve better your just a ..... like most of the others. I told him its over go..... someone else . I waited and gave it time hoping he might feel as i do, but i WAS WRONG very wrong.
Thanks For your great post very right indeed.
wont be seeing hime again.

Venizelos

Way to go threw that walk mat you were on out the door and took control of your person--don't know ya but am proud to know what I know about you.

Rickster New York, New York USA

Sun Jul 15, 2007 1:57 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

Head games are so disgusting. I sometimes can’t blame women for having a warped perspective on men.

sunshine1976 bolton, Greater Manchester, England UK

Sun Jul 15, 2007 2:07 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

ok is it just me....but when u really like and love someone the last thing ur going to do is go off and sleep with other people?

sweetpeace Someplace in, Alberta Canada

Sun Jul 15, 2007 2:09 PM CST : Does he love me .He says he feels nothing

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ok is it just me....but when u really like and love someone the last thing ur going to do is go off and sleep with other people?

It's not just you... but I wonder too if we are in the minority.

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