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Thank you all of you guys for posting on here.
It just irritated me of sending all of those emails out to all of the girls and hardly didn't get a responce.
I have talked to some other girls on the emails in this site but they were just a friendly conversations.

I have a big heart and I am easy going. So whoever my future girl that God has waiting for me. She will be very happy with me
As I'll be happy with her.

Thanks for all of your imput. I guess some people have it harder to find their perfect mate. I just hope it is worth waiting all this while.

I have family tell me that I'd make a perfect husband and she will appreciate for who I am.
I am a great guy to know.

Anyways, I gotta get to bed now.
Thanks again.
GN

I agree with Inky and mylifewithu. There's a reason why it's called a "killer smile." Most people can't resist smiling at someone who's smiling at them. And if you can make em smile, you make them feel good, and then you've got em wanting to get to know you.

I met my guy on here, and I fell in love with his smile before I even met him. It's still my favorite pic of him, he looks so happy in it, it just makes me happy to see it.

Gets em every time! Good luck!

Expectations are killers---just become one comes to a date site on the web doesn't mean they are actually looking for anyone.
A free place with forums that people socialize with each other given their opinions and just having fun is a cool place to be.
Just have fun and see what happens but don't expect it to happen you will feel better.

Paddy you bugger! I was gonna ask that very same question!

Teddybear, your sister is HOTTT!

Get in line, or send me a finder's fee....

OK here's my observations for what it's worth. You have something a lot of men don't have. You're 6'5" unfortunately you aren't "toned" like Arnold Schwarzenegger. Go to the gym and get that chisled sexy body and show it! You've got the frame for it. Merseylad has the right idea.

As already mentioned..Smile ...big!

Try wording your emails differently, maybe even throwing in a few lines of poetry.

Avoid phrases that are old as the dead sea scrolls like "I looked at your profile and I really like the way you look."

Try this; "I had a dream about you last night." and don't say another word! Let them wonder what your dream was about.

Don't send emails! Try sending just a flower, you may be coming off as too pushy.

Christ, I hope I haven't given all my techniques away.

Its all about selling yourself. I know it sounds funny but if your profile is just another bio then noone is going to respond. You just got to sell the good parts and dont talk about the bad ones. Its like selling a car you dont tell them that youve put new parts on it alot. You just say you got alot of new parts in it lol. I dont know really on this site the guys are like fighting for the ladies so stick with it. And im sure youll find someone.

You liddle smoothie, you bin takin' lessons?...

I've been following you Paddy

Yeap, Go with the Flow!!

I find that better than trying..

Just be yourself and keep it real even if it pisses people off---better to be straight up than have to go through another break up when the woman finds out the truth!!!

I that the flow of the fun or the flow of what most want you to be!?

I never said dont be honest just got to sell it alittle. Not so much tell them everything. Like ive found with having a girl i dont tell them when i meet her. I let her ask then i tell her. Unless she comes home then i got to tell her stuff like that.

To each their own heart be true but personally I am straight up in the moment.
All affairs are different from each other so if I am having a conversation that brings about whatever I go with it like it or not.
However in person when I can put facial features to what I am talking about it does come across a lot better than here.
Alot of attraction is based on mystery there is no reason to let it all out at once except if the moment requires one to so show is better than tell most of the time.

I have been a member on this site forever and don't get any feed back. I could spend and entire morning sending email and I get 0 responses. I don't go on the forum much either. The funny thing is though I did a test one time. I made up a fake woman who had a lot of money and I made her the most shallow self-center, selfish woman on the face of the earth and I got emails all the time. I deleted the profile right away of course because I didn't want to pretend to be something I am not but how interesting that I can't get any responses being myself but if I am some bimbo with money, they are all over it. So don't think it is you because it isn't.

Thats the way to feel good make a fake profile and just build that old self esteem.

Knock and thou shall receive!

First of all, you have to believe in yourself, I don't know how you come across in your emails but people tend to be attracted to positivity. Also, not knowing what you write but some guys are way too aggressive, they cut to the chase and start talking all about sex and that can be a turn off! When you view a profile, look to see if the person has something in common with you, common interests give cause for discussion and that is a way of developing rapport. I am certain that all you need is to be patient, don't give up and try and think positive. Of course chemistry is important and you may have a specific type of woman you are attracted to and vice versa. This site has many women, just give them a chance and if one doesn't work out, there are many others!

Don't be so damn negative, bro. Make 'em laugh...I mean really laugh.....that gets 'em interested every single time. You have to exude personality and confidence. Look at me...I'm ugly as hell.....and most (well some) of the chicks dig me....cuz I'm goofy as hell....LMAO....


go get em tiger

I don't talk about sex.
Also I do look at their profile and see how much of a match they are to me.
I'm sure as I talk more to girls, I'll know what to say more.

I had problems at first but once I started in on the forums and joining in then I started getting contacted more! There are always gonna be those who won't answer and you know what? You are better off if all they will do is judge you by the pic you post. Get in on the forums and show them yur wit-see what happens!