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If their eyes wonder and they take it farther than a natural instinct to look then they obiously don't appreciate what they have.

why do women stray then

A nude woman lol

i think it is to each their own reasons. guys are guys how many time have we had the bad end of the stick. How many relationship where fixed by having a kid. how many times have we been taken to the cleaners over a lack of judgement. In a perfect world right even doctor phil cheated on his wife. i think there are more important issues to talk about that a arguement over a glance of a lady. what would hapen if the same guy went to a strip club what then

It goes both ways for sure. If the trust and respect isn't there I don't think there is much of a relationship anyway.

Woman are no better tnen men,when its comes to being unfaithful,its WRONG,no ands if's or but"s about it.Its lack of communication and respect for your partner.

Yup, You definately need a clear understanding of what you both want out of the relationship and both working towards it with understanding. Definitely good communication.

A sneaky kick in the nuts makes a man's eyes water ... Oh SORRY!
The question was, "What makes a man's eyes wander?"

So it's only a man's eyes that wander ... heh heh ... girls, you're up to your old tricks. Everyone of you know that your eyes have wandered to a slim waist and a tight butt. But of course men are too polite to mention it. Besides, we can be much more effective if we wait until you are not looking and drive a spear right through the heart of tight butt ... not warn him that the reason the grass is moving is a large cat is amongst it. Tight butts are an endangered species.

Why do you think you were given breasts?
Every other primate successfully breast feeds without such exagerated breasts. It is so you can be seen as nubile from a fair distance away. So nature has instructed man to look for bouncing breasts and a narrow waist. In fact she has instructed women to look for many things too.

So it is not our fault. It is Mother Nature who has made us this way. Go winge to Mom.

A man looks at other women because they’re nice to look at.

A man looks at other women while you’re talking to him because he’s not interested in the conversation, and that’s rude.... for starters.

If the subject isn’t holding his interest, he could change the subject. If he’s seldom interested in the subject, you should maybe change the man.

It’s never bothered me when the woman I’m with checks out other men, I *know* she’s with me. But if I believed she wasn’t really interested in me, there wouldn’t be much point in maintaining the relationship.

You haven’t told us why this is bothering you, but it sounds like you suspect it’s because he’s not interested in you.

Figure out whether that feeling is just an ego thing, and if it is.... fohget aboud id. If it’s your gut (your instincts) telling you this, chances are he’s not right for you.

i agree ! :-)

It is in human nature to look at what you don't have......
The grass is always greener on the other side. Women look just as much as men do. Men don't care for the most part. Women on the other hand will see A female they think is prettier and wait until they see there man check them out and then jump on them. I have dated enough girls to know that if it bothers you then you are insecure. If you were secure you would not have a care in the world

THE EYES OF A MAN ARE ALWAYS ROAMING GIVEN THE OPPORTUNITY, FOR HE IS MUCH HAPPIER WHEN HIS NATURAL INSTINCTS AS A MAN ARE BEING CHALLANGE, ESPICALLY WHEN PUTTING HIS HORMONIAL LEVELS BEYOND HIS CONTROLL. "DO YOU REALLY BELIEVE THAT ONCE A MAN LIES DOWN WITH YOU THERE BE NO NEED FOR HIM TO LOOK ELSE WHERE"? THE TRUTH IS IT'S NOT WHAT LIES BETWEEN YOUR LEGS THAT COUNTS, BUT WHAT LIES BETWEEN YOUR EARS THAT REALLY MATTERS AND YOUR FAIRNESS OF HEART THAT WILL KEEP HIM COMING BACK TO YOUR ARMS. "GET RID OF THE FAIRY TAIL ALICE IN WONDERLAND MENDTALITY ABOUT MEN." WHAT YOUR BODY NEEDS IS A STRONG MIND AND THE KNOWLEDGE KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND PURE UNADULTRATED SEX. ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION: "IF YOU KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'VE BEEN DOIN YOU'LL KEEP GETTING THE SAME RESULTS" AND IT SOUNDS LIKE FROM YOU PAST REALATIONSHIPS THIS STATEMENT APPERARS TO BE VERY TRUE WHEN IT COMES TO YOU.

ALSO: AS A MOTHER OF 6 CHILDREN AND AT A YOUNG AGE OF 28 I THINK YOU SAID! "STOP A THINK WHERE YOUR LIFE IS GOING" FOR IF YOU DO NOT TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT YOURSELF AND MAKE THE NECESSARY CHANGES I'M AFRAID YOUR CHILDREN WILL SUFFER FOR IT, "FOR YOU CAN'T GIVE TO THEM WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE" BUT YET IT IS AVAILABLE TO YOU IF YOU WANT IT.

I DON'T KNOW IF YOU HAVE A GOOD SUPPORT SYSTEM TO HELP YOU WITH ALL YOUR LIFES CHALLANGES AND I'M SURE THERE IS MANY, BUT IF YOU NEED HELP AS WE ALL DO, START WITH YOUR LOCAL CHURCH, VARIOUS STATE AGENTENCYS, FINE OTHER WOMAN YOUR AGE AND OLDER WOMAN TO MENTOR YOU OR GUIDE YOU .

HERE IS THE QUOTE OF THE DAY: SOMETIMES LIVING IN ONES OWN HEAD IS LIKE LIVING IN A BAD NEIGHBORHOOD, IF THE NEIGHBORHOOD WON'T CHANGE THEN YOU CHANGE TO A NEW ZIP CODE, I KNOW IT'S HARD WITH 6 CHILDREN BUT NOT IMPOSSIBLE.

PLEASE GET HELP! WRITE TO OPRAH! DO WHAT EVER IS NECESSARY TO ENHANCE YOUR LIFE AND THE LIVES OF YOUR CHILDREN.... "FORGET ABOUT THE MEN FOR NOW" FOR IF YOUR NOT CAREFULL YOU'LL WINE UP LIKE THE LITTLE OLD LADY LIVING IN THE SHOE SHE HAD OVER 26 CHILDREN...:NO HUSBAND SOUND FAMILULAR.........


Adonas4 you.

I think its because they just arent concentrating on good penmanship,and the I wanders cause they dont follow thru before they dot! you know?,dot the i,juss kiddin!

right now my eyes wonder how the h^ll I got myself in Nebraska. As far as a man taking a look, its instinctual. I know girls look, so to be nice, I conviently (sp?) turn my head so they can feel free to look. If she's going to stray, keeping her from looking isn't going top make her stay. It's the ones who look, and then pull me closer that I don't worry about. Though I can't say the last four years have had much of that. The instinct is on both sides of the genders, faithfullness has nothing to do with it. Otherwise we would cover our women like they do in the middle east. Do you really think it stops it over there?

My eyes wander. Yes. Absolutely. Because women are beautiful. I love looking at beautiful things. That has nothing to do with sex. And yes, every once in a while, I'll see a girl who is just so rediculously gorgeous and flawlessly built that I can't help but stare for a moment, and my brain shuts down momentarilly. I'm a guy. That happens at the drop of a dime. I wasn't thinking about sex... I wasn't thinking about ANYTHING. AT ALL. Is that really that hard to believe? lol

But for the record, by that same token, take heart in the fact that I am NOT agreeing with my "walking wounded" breathren here who claim that women who have a problem with us slobbering uncontrollably are hypocritical so-and-so's who are simply insecure and weak... as is very much the impression I got reading a couple of these responses. That's a load. Period. If I caught my girlfriend staring longingly and smiling that devilish smile that lured me in at some total stranger who was built a little more like I wish I was, yeah. I'm sorry. That would irk me a bit. It's not that I'm insecure, but there is a MARKED difference in facial expressions between "Wow, he/she is beautiful" and "god, what I wouldn't give to be doing that..."

That difference may be a fine line, but it's important. Personally, I don't get with a girl if she's not enough to hold my attention FIRMLY. If I'm THAT easily distracted, that I find myself gawking HARD at other girls OFTEN... then I'm either utterly wasting my time with this girl, or I'm a complete mindless selfish waste of space as human beings go. Period. That's all there is to it.

(Insert my apologies for my little novel here)

As far as porn is concerned...

I can't speak for other guys here, because I don't hang out with other guys for the most part. But as far as I'M concerned... I just love porn. No shame at all. Don't care. i LOVE porn. I always have, and I always will. It has nothing to do with "I wish I was doing her"... I can HONESTLY say that I have very RARELY EVER imagined what it would be like to do some girl I saw in a porn. Honestly, particularly if I'm in a relationship, porn serves to inspire my sex life WITH her. I used to LOVE watching porn WITH my ex's, and for that reason. She'd see something, see that it turned me on, and give it a whirl, and, lo and behold, she loved it, as did I. I realize alot of people can't have that kind of relationship, and that truly saddens me. That level of comfort and open sexuality with a loved one is a truly beautiful thing.

What it comes down to for me personally is this:
I love sex. I love having sex, watching sex, thinking about sex... I put my creativity and my all into it, because it's my favorite pastime. And you know what folks? I've never gotten herpes from watching "Innocent Annie 2: The School of Hard *ocks"... nor have I had any girl in a porn my ex and I watched keep showing up at our house and calling us at work because my ex and I spent that evening watching her get crazy in the sack.

Nearly everyone has SOME level of voyeuristic streak in them. Whether they admit it or not, MOST people love sex enough that just watching two gorgeous human beings tearing one another to pieces in the sack really serves for some heavy entertainment value. It's not a matter of CREATING fantasy of someone else.

It's LIVING OUT socially unacceptable fantasies without HAVING to involve someone else. It's enjoying that group fantasy or voyeurism fantasy without feeling a need to ask a girl who's insecure about VIDEO TAPES OF girls, "Hey, do you think we could ask a couple to come screw like dogs in front of us while I hump you senseless?"

Newsflash: If the DVD special features caused an arguement... he's probably not going to feel real open and sharing about what's REALLY going through his mind.

Just a thought.

Quite heartfelt and with sincerest apologies for my endless longwinded droning...

D.

Nerve endings, muscles, tendons, and ligaments...
SHEESH!

44DD makes men eyes wonder
sorry had to say it

Good Looking Booty of course, why make it more complicated than it really is.

Personally, it would be a woman whos unafraid to be crazy in public, like have bright pink hair, or wear anime clothing, stuff like that =)

Allen

That is constructive, Luma