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well asd long as you are upfront with what you are thinking he should take what you say..and since you are not misleading him.. why not have a friendship..just keep the lines clear

Thank you sweetie!
I DO look lots better with my "face on!"

It's not easy being single in your 40's in today's crazy world, but think positive! You are a pretty woman and I sure hope you find the man of your dreams here OR at the grocery store!!

Sandals

He does have "something" going for him. He is slender, no pot gut, praportional, not really smiling so not sure about that.. wears glasses so can't really see his eyes....The biggest thing going for him is not his looks...it is his very kind and warm heart. I feel like that heart could be easily hurt by me too and I would never want to hurt anyone.

Hey Jag,
I had a similar problem with a man from this site....he was one of the first men to respond to my profile.....and he seemed really nice...lives in the states.....but his pic was posted and he was so not what I am looking for....sounded sweet and everything and when I told him that it wouldn't work because of the distance and because he was not my type and that there was no chemistry,......he offered friendship and some one to talk to....I thought that would be fine as a person can never have too many friends right?.....well was I wrong on that decision....3rd email in he proposed to me and wanted me to pack my stuff and move to the states.....telling me that god had sent me to him I was the woman he was waiting for all his life and that our love was meant to be....I politely told him that I was not interested.....he sent me another email telling me not to turn my back on our love....and that he needed me...so I told him that I didn't think it wise that we communicate any longer...he said I was tearing his heart out and that he needed my love....I had to finally block him......and all these emails with him were in a matter of only 2 days...don't get me wrong I'm not saying that your guy is this way....man this man that I emailed with was to the extreme of desperate....

wow...sounds crazy..lol... well distance isn´t really an issue is it?? i lived in the states before due to my exhusband.. and i have to say (hope my beloved boss -who i happily work for, for more than 7 years now.-great work- really...doesn´t read this)lol.. but if it comes to love and what makes you happy..i wouldn´t mind starting allover again somewhere else...life has so much to offer and being stuck to a certain location shouldn´t make you throw away love..?????

So many people to identify with here...Love it!

Sandals, a word of advice, if you want to call your friend but don't want them to have your number just block yours by dialing "*67" on your phone. I learned this from my 25 year old daughter!!! Lol!!!

Jag, I love all your comments...they have given me a good laugh!

One more word to the wise, TRUST YOUR INSTINCT, if there is something making you feel uncomfortable, there is a reason. I had a guy on here with no pic...when I asked for one he became rude. After going back and forth, he finally sent a pic...he was not bad looking! But something about his look said I am a bitter man. Turned out I was right.

Hot T

He has not gone that far.....yet....but he is telling me that he is falling in love with me more everyday..At least we are beyond 2 days....about 2 weeks now..lol...But that is way too fast...

He has said that we will go at my speed. It is just the factor of not wanting to hurt him. If I thought that he would be happy with the "friends only" aspect then that would be great...but I don't think he will....

than I would say follow your instincts be straight with him that you don't want to hurt him but that there is no chemistry and that you are not willing to be more than just friends and if he can't be happy with only being friends than you will have to part ways

Yes Dakota it was crazy.....and believe me if I could find the right man and fall in love I would have no prob relocating even to another country....I would never turn my back on love.....but I have to find it first....its hiding out there somewhere in the heart of an amazingly wonderful gorgeous guy with great buns.....

Hi Sandles just got on.I had a young guy email the other day.Had a pic.very goodlooking.When he asked for my phone num. I sent and told him why i didnt give out my num would he give me his.He sent me a cell phone.I mailed back after I found out it was a cell.Told him I needed a home phone and explained the reasons why.He emailed back and said he wouldnt bother me anymore.I also told him if we talked on messenger to have a web cam because I did,and then I would be sure I knew who I was talking to.It may sound tough but if they have nothing to hide and they r interested they wont mind.Have a good one .PS pratice makes perfect

Wow...I left for an hour and there are so many posts to answer!

Wait...I also want to check something else. Be back shortly!

when you find him can you ask if he has a brother ??lol... i want one too

Hello to all the rest of u beautiful ladies I have to get off for awhile be back later

bye cherokeemom.. hope you´ll be back soon

Hot_T....your love interest was totally obsessive and it was good that you dumped him like a pile of poop! There's nothing cute or flattering for ANY man to be obsessive! Glad you're free of him.

JAG....I'm not sure about YOUR guy, but I'd be very cautious over the next few days. If he's already saying he's in love with you, I've got my doubts about you even meeting him. BE VERY CAREFUL. The more you say about him, the more I'm not liking his personality.

DAKOTA...good for you having such a great boss and a great job for 7 years. It's so important to love what you do for a living.

Aquiestoy......I don't believe I'll be calling the Professor. I've got a feeling he's much younger than 68. In fact, I'd bet dollars to donuts he's in his 30's!! Older gentleman just don't phrase sentences the way he does. We'll see if he answers my e-mail. I said, "It's really cool that you're a Professor in Communications. My grandson is majoring in it. What college are you affiliated with?" I kinda slipped in the "grandson" AND the last question, so we'll see if he answers.

DAKOTA...glad to see you. Oh for SURE we cannot be too careful about giving our phone #'s to anyone who comes along. So many men think they're God's gift and that we are all sitting around waiting for one of them to acknowledge us.

FYI....have you noticed how many people are curiously reading our topics but not answering? It's amazing. Too many lurkers and not enough posters!

well i hope lots of men read these posts and take some out of it and to their heasrts maybe ..lol...but naaaaaaaahhhhh..they are maybe just wondering what a bunch of girls are so busy talking about.. bet they think its ´nasty stuff.. no no no gentleman... we would never say stuff like that.. at least not when you´re around..lol

Thanks for the advise Sandals...you always seem to have the voice of reason...I will take you advise and go Very Slow and may put a period on this soon. I will keep my "radar detector" on at all times

DAKOTA.....I think there are LOTS of men reading our posts for one reason or another. It's okay if they're curious! Nothin wrong with being curious!

JAG....FOR SURE, take it a little slower with the guy. If you have been a little hesitant while he's been "rushing it," there's cause for concern. You're a lot younger than me and won't be pushin up daisies anytime soon, so TAKE YOUR TIME!


FYI...just check the other site and after the Professor sent me 4 quick e-mails in a row, it's been two hours without a response to mine where I mentioned my "grandson" and casually asked what college he was affiliated with. The S.O.B. was probably Jack the Ripper in disguise! There's ANOTHER e-mail there from yet ANOTHER guy without a picture! I'm really beginning to wonder if it's not the same guy re-inventing himself over and over!! Sick puppy!!

Cherokee....really cute picture of you! Very classy but natural and down-to-earth!

It's casual...like mine where I'm holding up the porch!!

Muscles sore? need a massage??