Posted: Jul 25, 2007, 3:45 PM CST
In response to:
We're talking about persons who's not in a relationship. I think very few people in relationships would allow their partner to sleep around, unless that's their thing. I guess my point here is that would you disregard a woman that used to have casual sex? Could you date a girl who has had multiple partners?
From a womans point of view.........
I can absolutely 100% say NO, I would not date a guy who has had or HAS multiple partners!
are you insane? (don't take it personal)......
with all the b/s that is going on out there? and I am gonna give myself completely to you and have to worry what the heck you are gonna bring over to my place????
When I am in a relationship....then THAT is exactly what it is..........something that is totally shared amungst us.....loyality, honesty, compassion, respect, class........alllllllll those things all wrapped into one, and maybe more........
I call dudes with multiple partners "players" and I can tell you that I have DATED guys whom tell me that they are honest whereas, you do NOT have to be a rocket scientist to see that they are NOT......that is why I stick to my dating rules......
but in the same breath, if you are single and you (being guy or girl) feel that casual sex with multiple partners are ok, then who are we, or anyone for that matter, to tell you otherwise.....
the only problem??? It might bite that person in the ass when they finally DO find someone and after a few weeks of courting, they go to a friends party (their new love's friend) only to bump into a mate that you did the bumping and grinding with!
good luck to you