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All right everybody my ex husband just called me and asked me if I would send him some pictures of me.I asked what for and he said he needed something to look at to well........you know. The guy is getting remarried in 3 months. I couldn't keep his eyes on me then and now I just feel sorry for his new fiance. What is wrong with this picture?

Am I wrong for being so pissed off?

Another dog dink.Tell him if he wants pics to look at take some of his fiancee.
My ex who was engaged at the time wanted me to be his #$%ck buddy.This was after sleeping with 3 other woman.
This is the man who when I gained weight after having his child always told me how fat and ugly I was.Go figure.

If I am reading your reference correctly that is pretty gross. I can understand the pissed off thing. Take it from me, you will eventually heal, the more you heal the less pissed you will be. I'm feeling pretty good now, my ex is living with someone already too. I feel sorry for that guy each time I see him. He reminds me of me when I was in pain. Glad that's over! You'll be fine!!!!

i wouldn't worry, he's just thinking of what he can't have. keep it that way. you are (if you dont mind me saying) sexy,pretty, and you seem(i used seem because i don't know you very well hope thats ok) very intelligent.

BC , you have to judge why he wants a photo of you...
To drool over , to make his fiance' jealous (I know , that's twisted) . Or , maybe he wants to remember a certain investment of the years of his life.

Plus , consider that your picture ANYWHERE in his new home will not be welcomed by his wife. Do you want to give him the opportunity to piss off his new wife?

Weighing the pros and cons , his memories versus the chance for a bad outcome: GIVE A PHOTO gets 1 vote ,
NO PHOTO gets 3 votes , in my scientific survey.

Only my opinion , do what you want with it.

well, I don't like to be judgmental but I think he is sick and doesn't know what he wants in life. Just ignore him. Doesn't worth a moment thought!

To be honest I really like his new fiance. We are nothing alike though she treats my children very well. I am more pissed off because I seen the hurt my children have gone through the last 3 and a half years after we got divorced and now they are starting to warm up to this new woman I am pissed because he thinks he can hurt anyone and children just don't understand at that age. My children are my whole life and every part of it revolves around them. I just don't want to have to watch an instant replay again.Whic by the way no I would not send him those kind of pictures.

he has alot of nerve asking that of you...sounds lik he has no business getting married if he is thinking those thoughts when he is engaged.......I feel sorry for her future misery but you cant be the one to tell her ....the best of luck to you and your children.....babycountry....Amy

Hi,
Some men are weak, I am not sure of the circumstances of your ending, but it would seem that maybe, and I mean a BIG maybe, he hasnt come to terms with your breakup and yet is too weak to be alone for a decent period. There must be something decent about this man, otherwise why were you with him in the first instance? But his need is somewhat gross, and I do not believe that he is showing respect to you or his fiance. Perhaps he should find a more mature method to show his loss or indecision. :-)

sick and confused

He just want you in his life because he feels somewhere
down the road his relationship might fail!

booty call - n 1: the act of calling or contacting a person for the sole purpose of having sex.
2: a person that is the recipient of such a call

Kind of warped booty call - he didn't have the nerve to ask for you personally so he asked for a picture. Plus, he wouldn't get in real trouble if he was caught in the act and he could use that picure over and over and over. UGGGGHHHHH!

Well got to say I am the vandictive type I would send a pivture to the fiancee and enclose a note your asshole is looking for this to get his jollies that you cannot fulfill please keep your dogg on a chain

Izzy that would solve nothing and just hurt the kids who have two solid woman in their lives.I have pictures of my ex in the house but they are in my childs bedroom because he should have pictures of his Dad around.

Sounds like he regrets the decision he made. Either that or he's just not a faithful man in the first place. Stay away from that one.

No babycountry not wrong at all

Honestly, babycountry...if you like his fiance...then I'd tell her what he has proposed...wouldn't you want to know if the man that you were about to pledge to spend the rest of your life with was asking his ex to send him pictures to jerk off to? I know I would...it would be hurtful, yes...but clearly it would be saving her a lot more hurt further down the road (and your kids as well, by the sounds of it)...

Just my two cents..



Nice to meet you, by the way...

Sam