Thunder Lover asks:
now a question,,for the ladys mostly,, how long of time would you say sex should last and how many times a day, week, and so on do you think is right?
I've always found that men who go for the marathon in bed (or the Energizer bunny routine) often go too far in their attempts to last oh, so long. After too long, quite frankly, desensitization tends to take effect. The hurrieder he goes, the behinder he gets!
Seriously, I, for one, don't want the all-nighters. Sometimes, less is more. Don't get me wrong...no hit and run, either, but there's no need to go on and on and on and on and on and...well, you get the idea. Mutual pleasure followed by a good night's sleep...now that's MY idea of the right amount of time.
How many times a day, week, and so on??? As often as possible and as often as both are of the same mindset. Again, just speaking for myself. Other women care to chime in??