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My heart was just broken again bye a woman I love. am I that ugly that she wants nothing to do with me? She said i made her happy and i have a heart of gold but then why doesnt she wanna be with me. i dont know what to do. I only wanted to be with her

NEXT!!!

Dude i'm sorry to hear about your lose but you dont really give much info could she be with someone else? is her schedule cramed?

YOU ARE NOT

(I REPEAT)

YOU ARE NOT

UGLY NOR WORTHLESS and you never will be.

I know I don't know you but anyone that gives love a chance deserves a chance themselves. Sometimes your mind and path have to be cleared for you to move on to bigger an brighter things. Your day is coming. We all have to have a little gloom to appreciate the sunlight all the more.

100% correct!

Never let a girl make you feel like that. She probably is missing out on a good thing. Most of the time people end relationships because they aren't happy with themselves. Don't worry, there will be someone better out there for you! Sorry you're hurting now though.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

The most attractive people in the world may also be ugly on the inside. Never let someone who is ugly on the inside make you feel ugly on the outside.

Rude and insensitive people are also ugly on the inside.

Please don't this person or any one for that matter stop from loving yourself.

Take care!

I adore your attitude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not sure how long you were dating this woman (if only a short time maybe she's not ready for something more than casual - seems to be that way for alot of people) .... and I get the feeling that you are looking for something more committed.

It does sound like the communication between the two of you was on different wave-lengths ......... as she obviously is not communicating her true feelings/desires or else you weren't listening. Not sure which, but hopefully in hindsight you'll learn from what has happened.

I think its our natural tendency to fall in love (quickly and with blinders on) ........... so sometimes after a period of time we can view that person as they really were (spots and all).

As for her breaking up with you because of your looks? Logic says that's not the case because she was obviously attracted to you in the beginning (so stop thinking negative about yourself). Just sounds like to me that she wasn't ready and that its really has nothing to do with you. Of course there are always two sides to the story - so I'm going by what you have conveyed.

know the feeling

Self-pity. Not good.

Not good is showing lack of compassion. Who hasn't ever been at the same point in their life?

Lack of sensitivity for those hurting...Not good..

been there done that...everyone has at some point i think...chin up, and be secure in WHO you are. its hard to deal with. reality sucks...but you get right back on track and meet others who are worth your time and effort.

Your not ugly or worthless! You will find someone better who appreciates you for who you are. Try not to let one woman ruin your self-confidence. Be happy with who you are!

Ditto

I am sorry you are hurting.

Hon you are so young and will likely have your heart broken a few more times before you meet your true love.

I can't tell you how many times I have been dumped but never for one second did allow myself to believe it was because I was ugly or unworthy.

Believe in yourself for the wonderful person that you are .... and your light will shine through for the right one to find you.

Am sorry for all endured. Life is too short. Your heart will heal in time and there are a lot of fish in the sea. Love is a risk and you have to love yourself first and be content in your own skin. Take a deep breath, let go of the past and live for the future and the wonderful possibilities that life could provide. People come into your life for a reason, season or lifetime.... good luck......

I wholeheartedly concur with what this lovely woman stated. Trying to figure it out could drive one insane. I mean, look what happended to me.

On to bigger and brighter things my friend...