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Well Thank you for all your kind welcomes....

i have met a few online.. not this site though.. but has turned out to be a diaspointment!! however i met a man a few weeks ago thats in the Army.. he told me he thought the world of me... but has since returned to Germany to do the rest of his Posting.. (he was on leave when i met him)
i have sent 4 letters but not had any back.. i am really fond of him but wandering if im wasting my time.. He says he is gonna come home when he gets a long weekend off etc...(he has 8 months left there) and he said he'd text me.. but dont even know if hes getting my texts as its a different country!!

ADVICE PLEASE!!!

love Trish
xxx

God I hope so hun it took me alot of courage to come on to this site and i have talked to some real cute guys, some weirdos too lol

My advice is move on don't wait around you could be missing out on some real fun, his loss at the end of the day. Just live each day as it comes, don't expect anything and you won't get anything, bite the bullet and get out there and have fun fun fun lol

my advice is dont go lookin let it find you

I believe so. Good with the bad, but still a world, a WHOLE WORLD!! of possibilities.

That is a very good question, does it really work? I suppose it does for some... but what about us few that look and look, see someone we like and would REALLY like to get to know better, talk for a bit, and then bam. no more, what gives, men judt don't know what they want huh?

I guess it can but still need that eye to eye in person meeting. Have fell for a couple of guys on the internet. Then come to find out when we met 1 sent his cousins picture out saying it was him which was a big strike against him for being a liar, (No second chance for that) and the other absolutely no sparks off line. So now I wonder is there some magic in this screen we look at???? But all the best of luck to you, Hope it happens for you.

Hi Sis,
You met me on a dating site! You need not look any further! Hahahaha! Love you more! ha - got in first! xxx

i agree, words to live by..

Yes.

Many years ago, on another site -- far, far, away -- I corresponded with a local guy for one week before meeting in person. It was wonderful, and we dated for 4 years (we lived together for 2 of those, and almost married -- but business took him to Hawaii, and I chose to stay here).

We are still friends.

No it doesn't work at all, no matter how hard u try.

^^^ Great inspirational answer. I just love how it oozes confidence and inspiration.

You obviously haven't spoken with Laurie or some others who have CONNECTED here....

Do you know what gets me lol Is how people say negative things about meeting someone online and falling in love but yet here they are in a dating site themselves? Whats up with that now? lol

Tracy :oS

Hi and welcome.
I don't know really. I am wondering the same thing.
But ever since I saw the picture of a guy I have great respect for trying to find love on line, I have become convinced that there are good and genuine people to meet online.
So, like the others said, be very careful and patient, which I know I am not very good at.
Best of luck.xxx

My point exactly Tracey. It usually means that the person has not yet resolved their insecurities or confidence taken with previous relationships.

If you don't believe in yourself, you can't expect someone else to, nor can you expect something like a dating site to work.

I believe, because I want to believe, so I am already one up....

I think that everyone would like to think that it does. I tried the phone line dating service before getting online. I met some really nice people, but it was like they just wanted to play. I am the first for a really good time, but some of us are really looking for a relationship! It's definitely alot harder to meet people on the internet cause it's exactly that, the internet. Look forward to at least meeting a few good friends if nothing else.

Well maybe you haven't meet the right person hon. You never know unless you do try. Some of us have to try harder is all... someone's out there for ya...

an avenue...
yes, it can work...has worked...
eventully the couple has to be face to face, eh? Think I want the flesh...hehehe

far as other loves, go?

have become close to wonderful folks here...=o)

Get used to it, been there, done that.

You could be right there Earl! Looks like you are doing just fine!