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The first one I didn't say anything to, felt sorry for him I guess. Just never talked to him again. The other guy I talk to all the time but won't date. I told him he needed to change his age and he claims he "can't cause the site won't let him", lol. Won't change his pic because he says he "doesn't take good pics". Translation: the extra weight and gray hair would show up in the new pic, lol. Speaking of weight, he thinks at 116lbs I am "overweight". He thinks I should weight 97lbs. Yet another reason not to go out with him.

Someone made the statement that people lie about their age, because they are just out and out liairs. I think that might be the answer.

I will tell you about some of my experiences with men lying about their age. By the way, I am not picking on the guys. I haven't met anyone from this site, but I met eleven men from two other dating sites during a period of ten months. Of those eleven men, eight of them posted pictures that were anywhere from ten to twenty years old. I realized this after I met the guys. When the men showed up, they looked nothing like their pictures and were much older than their posted age. For example, the last guy I met was Rick. The pic on his profile was that of a man about 48, maybe 50. Rick had brown hair in his picture, a full face with dimples and nice teeth, and posted his height as being 5'10". When Rick showed up, he had snow-white hair, a thin gaunt face, no dimples, bad teeth, was around 5'7" or 5'8" and was at the very least 65 years old. The other seven men pulled the same dirty tricks on me in that when they showed up for our meeting, they turned out to be ten to fifteen years older than what they claimed on their profile. The only positive thing I can say is that even though the guys lied to me, they treated me well, some brought me flowers or candy, and some encouraged me to order the most expensive items off the menu when we had dinner. However, flowers, candy and an expensive meal in a five-star restaurant does not make up for the fact that they lied to me. Naturally, I never saw any of them again.

hi ya

like you am very happy with my age, dont really give a damm what people say, i'll be the bit 40 this Jan, hey is only a number, its how you feel inside, and anyway, lie about your age, means your not happy with yourself.

roll on 40

Hey sweety...am I invited to the party??

I met a woman online a few years ago who said she was 40. We got along great and after a while I went out to see her. She was a professional photographer and she did a nice job on her picture. When I saw her I knew she had shaved a few years off her age, like 20. Anyway I spent the weekend, she treated me like a king which I wasn't accustomed to and yes we did the deed, it was just ok. It didn't bother me about her fudging her age at all. Most people have something about them they may not be too thrilled about, fat people will never say they are fat rather they say full figured or curvey, smokers say "trying to quit" My own mother use to tell me if anybody asked her age to say 21+ and of course when asked I'd say she's 21+21+21 She didn't think that was that funny.

Are you sure???

Did u mentioned anything to them? I'm sure they called again, what did u tell them then??

Yes Eri, why do I look older then my pics ?

So it's really about the teeth huh

On a meet and greet I'll bring my last dental e-rays... Never had a cavity!



<jokin...the e-rays stay home>

Hey Tumpa

Have u ever had an experience like that? How was ur trip???

Hey teeth ARE important...dont u think??

Hey teeth ARE important...dont u think??

Yes dear, I have seen some people who's photos show them at their best angles and colours but that exists everywhere in our society nowadays, including actors and models.

One very recent experience was during my trip. I accompanied a woman who I met in Australia to one of her photo shoots for her portfolio and was quite simply amazed how well the photos of her got touched up by mere us of Photoshop.

As for the rest of my trip, it was most memorable. Beautiful warm people, big ocean, big trees and a new nature previously only seen through the TV monitor...PS. Thanks for asking!!

NP Eri, I'm just not the type of person to lie.

Was being light-hearted....don't take me too serious on that.

(however, I've never had a cavity) I'll take my blessings where I can get them..... :)

I was bike riding in Central Park. This man jogging in front of me dropped one of his dentures. I almost broke my neck trying to avoid running over it.

I was bike riding in Central Park. This man jogging in front of me dropped one of his dentures. I almost broke my neck trying to avoid running over it.