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Both SOME men and women cheat....So to answer your question...YES!

".......... and there Parents didn't raise them correctly."

Parents are not responsible for their children's relationships. I mean yes there are some that maybe didn't raise their children with morals and values and respect. BUT not all parents are to blame.

You are only responsible for your own actions. To blame parents and other things is just a poor excuse period!

JMHO!

what is it with questions like this, as if anyone of us can really answer it. forevery man that cheats as for every woman that cheats the reason is not the same. For some well they are just not capable of being faithful, others the relationship might be missing something, could be a many different reasons. Maybe they are just to stupid (not men but those who cheat) to either see what they have for what it is, or just to cold to let go before moving on. sorry not trying to be a jerk, dont mind me.

Thier's a good chance the cheating man is going with a cheating womem

We cheat..because we can??




We lose....because we did!!

Not I, but who do they cheat with,ahaa,I rest my case.

And that just shows where the morals of Society have gone.

One lives by the way they are raised either directly or indirectly. That is why there is a Profession called Pshychology.

No a Parent is not suppose to hold there hand for them. But if they have raised them properly they will go into the world and survive.

If Kids were raised to have respect for women and their peers.
If Kids were raised to have respect for the law and the law enforcer.
If Kids were taught that if you do wrong you get punished.
If kids were taught to use manners at all times.

Before anyone jumps on their high horse.

I have failed in most of these as a parent. I have failed to achieve the ideals I have written.

Look carefully at yourselves. Generally how do you refer to the law enforcer. Do you refer to them as the Pigs or the chips or whatever other slang. These are not terms of respect. Our Movie industry is full of abuse to our Peers and our law enforcement community. In the Movies even the law enforcer don't refer to each other with respect.

How we raise our kids is not just what we do in our backyard it is the Films we let our kids watch, The Music and radio stations we let them listen to and the TV we let them watch.

Yes we are responsible for how our kids turned out. And those lessons and snapshots they keep and remember from their youth is what balances and affects their choices as they get older.

Why a person cheats. What did their Parents teach them about Marriage. What did there Parents teach them about taking responsibility for their kids. What did their Parents teach them about sex and respect for their Partner. What did there Parents teach them about responsibilities.

There are many ways to learn these lessons. But if one Parent walks away the job of raising the child with the right Morals and values just got 50% harder.

becuase we let our hormones rule

and as females let lust rule we can fun toghether

A lot do, but then so do a lot of women it does take two. Question is how do you know they will or wont?

this deserve a very long mail it wlol be boring for people to read it

i will work on it

you bet... to be fair though so do women..

Every chance they get!!!!!

THAT IS THE QUESTION!!

it is in both our natures to cheat but not everyone does.

Men and women cheat for different reasons.

A woman is more bound to cheat if she feels neglected or abandoned mentally and/or emotionally in her relationship.

A man is more bound to cheat if he feels neglected or abandoned physically and/or sexually in his relationship.

This does NOT mean that a man can’t feel neglected emotionally – even enough to cheat.

This does NOT mean that a woman can’t feel neglected sexually – even enough to cheat.


But sometimes when a relationship grows old and settled, we tend to forget the needs our partner may have that can vary from our own.
Two people are not alike and we don’t necessarily want or care for or need the same things. This should be respected, not debated. There is no right or wrong – it’s not more important to have a functioning emotional life than to have a functioning sexual life.
Both are very important matters in a relationship between two adults.

Generally speaking a man forgets that his woman needs intimacy, not just physically, to get turned on and feel lust. So he doesn’t understand why she turns him down “after everything he’s doing for her”.

Generally speaking a woman forgets that men tend to have a higher sex drive and therefore need more sex. This doesn’t mean she should give him sex involuntarily, it means she has a responsibility not to take on too many burdens (as a mother, as a daughter, as a sister, at her job…) so she can’t be a woman to her man, a wife to her husband.


It is my experience and understanding that generally the responsibility for cheating is 50/50.

50% of the time it is entirely the cheating part’s fault – he or she should have found another way to solve their issues but didn’t bother or they are outright idiots who shouldn’t be allowed to date or commit in relationships at all.

The other half of the time it is shared responsibility. Shared within the relationship. I’m not saying that it is ever the hurt part’s fault, because the cheating spouse should have known better or found another response than to cheat.
But sometimes it can be really hard work to be in a relationship and sometimes your partner may seem cold and unreachable. Perhaps the love has died without anybody even noticing, perhaps things have been bad for so long that nobody has the energy to fix the issues.

But we as humans crave love and attention, warmth and intimacy to thrive. It is not a good solution, but a solution none the less to seek outside of one’s relationship to get fulfilment of the needs that are not met at home.

As partners we have a responsibility to not let things get that much out of hand. We have a responsibility to our spouses to react if we can somehow register that they are not happy or fulfilled or just not comfortable with the lives they live, both within the relationship and generally.

I’m not hereby implying that cheating can be excused or should always be forgiven. It’s highly important that people do what is best for themselves and if one can’t forgive the cheating even after the root of the problem(s) causing the cheating have been found and dealt with, then the relationship needs to end. A relationship filled with bitterness and resentment is not worth anything at all, not even for the children involved. Then it is by many standards better to be alone.



Personally I couldn’t forgive cheating even though I can fully understand what may cause it. I have accepted my limits within forgiveness and respect myself too much to pressure me into accepting something I know in my heart that I can’t.
Then it’s better IMO to let go and move on.

No not every man/woman cheats....

I have never cheated in my entire life on anyone....