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And what about the men who want eye candy?????????
Many if not most men go after the wrapping and not the package.
Double standards

Of course we want nice guys, but how does one truly find one?

They all appear nice to begin with and then let you down...

Someone send me a nice guy please!

this argument is and never going to be one gender specific.....a lot of women can appear nice "at first" too




for someone who has been around for 122 years, who is better knowledged than you to back me up on this??

If you mean a "nice" guy who is predictable, will not try anything new, loving, stays in and ONLY enjoys cuddling up by the fire watching a good dvd with a glass of wine. Then no I would get bored.

If you mean a "nice guy" who is mischievous, wicked sense of humour, unpredictable (but not in a violent or cheating way) spontaneous and can be outrageous, then yes bring it on!!

If you mean bad as in guy who is violent and has affairs then no I certainly would not like that.

Of course, but this thread is about men.... so that is how I responded.

Nice is not gender specific.

define nice........

Well said Hypnocat

Thank you Lolls

I kind of agree with this post. They "act" nice and sucker us in emotionally before showing their true colours....

Good post by Hypno too

Yep, I like nice guys...

with a pitch like that you should be in the Major Leagues..

hows your curve ball?

seriously that was good

Yeah, its so difficult to find a right person for urself. But beauty lies in the specific looks ratther of a person, rather than the objects, Because different people feel beauty in different things.

Just try to look someone urself.
Good Luck to you & your future Life partner.

Great people thinking Great

Ah yes, the "nice" guy, who seems to be reliable, loving and wants to spend the rest of his life with you.

And then. after the wedding and a year down the road, he stops paying attention, wanders off and suddenly you look around and you're alone!!

Or worse, if anger is an issue

well they must do i have been with one for 2years now

I would love to believe that...But men do not try too hard saying this. If you do then it will start looking as if you are trying too hard to cover something up. True though to some women about thinking they can not do any better i know a few who think this..It is sad.

I love a nice sweet guy, but there has to be a limit. He has to be masculine as well though. *M*

Sounds like a commercial...
Like "never leave home without me"

Some of the good girls like nice guys who can be "bad" sometimes... don't quit looking...theyre out there....

Maybe you're just attracting the wrong ones???

We ladies are always going to be checking out the hot guys,and any guy can be hot,he just needs to find his niche.
and if a guy tells you he aint checking out some lady,then they must be ded and buried.
For me it has alot to do with the passion he has,like some guys barely try,you notice them in a crowd of hundred.
They have the look,not to say its all about sex its not.
And when you been a temptress,you can pretty well figure out what is real and who is just pretending.
As for being mean get a gripe guys it alls in a game the abuser does,he sets the stage,fools them completely.
And by the time you figure out you been lied to you are in love or too hooked to want to move.
Saying the bad guys always gets the girl is just a crutch for you guys meaning you just quit trying.
You got to blame it on something,so why not divert it to,somethings lacking .