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When a Man says he wants to take it slow...

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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:45 PM CST
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No you said that, not me.

It is just one of the many things that may or may not have happened.
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stefonline
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:45 PM CST
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No you said that, not me.

It is just one of the many things that may or may not have happened.
I did....did I......dont remember saying anything of the sort.....im just reading between the lines here.......conversing
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Mitchell1
Chattanooga USA
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:46 PM CST
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Now now children
Not being childish here, I don`t need you to call me down. Thank you, but I do not detect any animosity here. handshake
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:47 PM CST
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........it's not impossible that a guy might want to take it slow.


just a thought...
It's always possibledrinking
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Tiffanie
Nijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:48 PM CST
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Not being childish here, I don`t need you to call me down. Thank you, but I do not detect any animosity here.
A joke Mitchell cool it.hug
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Mitchell1
Chattanooga USA
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:48 PM CST
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I did....did I......dont remember saying anything of the sort.....im just reading between the lines here.......
I see, that`s one of the problems with communication between the sexes.

Too much trying to understand what the other means instead of hearing what is said.

I think I am pretty straight up with what I say, you will never have to read between the lines with me.

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Mitchell1
Chattanooga USA
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:48 PM CST
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A joke Mitchell cool it.
cool
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:49 PM CST
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I see, that`s one of the problems with communication between the sexes.

Too much trying to understand what the other means instead of hearing what is said.

I think I am pretty straight up with what I say, you will never have to read between the lines with me.

hear what is said?Just that?

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Tiffanie
Nijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:49 PM CST
Anyway to all of you I've enjoyed myself this evening and I know it's not over yet but I have other things to do. Might be back later on but if not enjoy yourselves wherever you are.

Tiffaniehug cheers
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kujhawkrulz
Neosho Falls, Kansas USA
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:50 PM CST
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........it's not impossible that a guy might want to take it slow.


just a thought...
Not trying to cut anyones throat, but I've experienced so many columns where the women kind of sort of kind of have 'hatred' towards men.

I had a man that treated me like crap.....been there done that, but why is it that 'us' women tend to focus so much on the negative. I'm sure that I'm not being a bit naive here, but hell it just seems to me that if you are looking for a man then there must be something positive in finding one.

Whether a guy says "take things slow or not" does it really have that much weight to cause a person to over analyze things and put so much effort into figuring it out?

Sometimes I see guys come on the threads and leave because their thoughts are shredded apart and therefore there is no real interaction between man and woman and it becomes a very one sided thread at the end.

I'm not saying that I'm not guilty of this, because I'm sure I am from time to time, but let's try to take things in perspective and not psychologically tear things into shreds where none of it makes any sense.

-Erin
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stefonline
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:51 PM CST
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I see, that`s one of the problems with communication between the sexes.

Too much trying to understand what the other means instead of hearing what is said.

I think I am pretty straight up with what I say, you will never have to read between the lines with me.

That's great to know mitch I wont ever have to read between the lines with you.....

Have a lovely evening......hug
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:52 PM CST
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Anyway to all of you I've enjoyed myself this evening and I know it's not over yet but I have other things to do. Might be back later on but if not enjoy yourselves wherever you are.

Tiffanie
always read the underlying baby girl...always!professor

Thanks for the thread, have fun whereever you are going!wink

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cheers hug
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evie_girl_fl
Fayetteville, North Carolina USA
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:57 PM CST
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WHEN I say I want to take it slow it's because I'M not sure if she is the one for me... and I NEED TIME to get to know her.
I think the same too... But dont you think its a waste of time doing so?

As I wrote before, can a person tell if he/she clik and wants to get to know her after the meeting?
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evie_girl_fl
Fayetteville, North Carolina USA
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 2:59 PM CST
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Not trying to cut anyones throat, but I've experienced so many columns where the women kind of sort of kind of have 'hatred' towards men.

I had a man that treated me like crap.....been there done that, but why is it that 'us' women tend to focus so much on the negative. I'm sure that I'm not being a bit naive here, but hell it just seems to me that if you are looking for a man then there must be something positive in finding one.

Whether a guy says "take things slow or not" does it really have that much weight to cause a person to over analyze things and put so much effort into figuring it out?

Sometimes I see guys come on the threads and leave because their thoughts are shredded apart and therefore there is no real interaction between man and woman and it becomes a very one sided thread at the end.

I'm not saying that I'm not guilty of this, because I'm sure I am from time to time, but let's try to take things in perspective and not psychologically tear things into shreds where none of it makes any sense.

-Erin
True, True... I think there is nothing wrong with asking someones else opinion either... It up to me to take or deny their advices..yes?
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 3:03 PM CST
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I think the same too... But dont you think its a waste of time doing so?

As I wrote before, can a person tell if he/she clik and wants to get to know her after the meeting?
you kiss the person and...yes, you want to know the person...you need more of the person...you can't get enough...
You kiss the person...or not...and you want to take it slow?

Taking it slow as to be connected with a substantial step.No substantial Step, no need to take it slow.
What is substantial step?

We all know...taking into account that no one is virgin here!grin
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kujhawkrulz
Neosho Falls, Kansas USA
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 3:05 PM CST
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True, True... I think there is nothing wrong with asking someones else opinion either... It up to me to take or deny their advices..yes?
Asking advice and having a forum to post it on is wonderful thumbs up

-Erin
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 3:10 PM CST
aren't instincts our ego? ego is emotional, emotional is less logical...logic is impiric, impiric is experience, experience is...knowledge for the ones who pay attention!

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evie_girl_fl
Fayetteville, North Carolina USA
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 4:08 PM CST
Oh thank you...
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evie_girl_fl
Fayetteville, North Carolina USA
Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 4:10 PM CST
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aren't instincts our ego? ego is emotional, emotional is less logical...logic is impiric, impiric is experience, experience is...knowledge for the ones who pay attention!



Okay, i confused heredunno

If Im reading this right, then I kind of not agree there...
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Posted: Oct 7, 2007, 4:12 PM CST
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aren't instincts our ego? ego is emotional, emotional is less logical...logic is impiric, impiric is experience, experience is...knowledge for the ones who pay attention!



While instinct does work outside the boundaries of logic, it's very much in tune with the part of the brain used in inspiration.

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