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and a hooker!

How silly of me to think that a beautiful woman would fall for me.

Sitting alone, she was everything I stay away from!! She was so pretty! Blonde and slim.

I decided to buy her a drink. She came over and sat across from me. Normally, I would have blown her off, but I got to thinking about some of the comments on CS, and decided to go for it!

She said she was 43 yo...too young for me, but......what the heck!
I bought the 2nd and 3rd..we laughed and talked like we were old friends. Had a lot in commom!

Stupid male pride!! She said let's get out of here. Leaving karaoke?? She had to be hot!! I asked her where she wanted to go,( hoping her place) she said I don't care! Whoo-Hoo!

Then she said"...can I make some money" I said not from me!! She asked again. I said .."Homey don't play dat!!". I did a u-turn, and dropped her back at the karaoke bar.

God, I am so gullible. She was everything I have said wouldn't be interested in a guy like me....and I was right!! I feel so stupid!!

Guys, has your male pride led you on , too? Or am I the only idiot that fell for a hooker!!





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"I asked her where she wanted to go,( hoping her place) she said I don't care!"

So you had only just met this lady and almost immediately you were hoping for sex...... not getting to know her or enjoy her company, etc...?? Ahhhh... the ol' testosterone rules again....

Somehow, I find it hard to be sympathetic...!!





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wasn't looking for sympathy!! I am more angry than anything else! At me!!





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Sorry, Ship it does happen. I have never confused a money making woman for a decent woman but yes, I have had my share of "buy me a drink...and another...and another...OH, by the way, I need my car out of the inpound tomorrow, d'ya think you could..."...

Sorry if I chuckle here, Ship. Don't think much of it, those things will happen.

And what are the odds of it happening to you again?






Don't answer that

Ship!!! It's all good my man!





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when I first read your title I thought you were talkin about me





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The odds of this ever happening again are impossible!!!!!!!!

How stupid of me to think an attractive woman would be interested!! I'll go back to my corner where I belong, and quit listening to people who say I should be more positive!! How friggen dumb can one man be!!





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Well, I don't know if I should answer that and maybe it's not a question since you exclaimed it, but you shouldn't take it so hard on yourself. Do you know what kind of embarasment a man can get himself through while trying to meet someone at a public place? OH, sorry you do know, but my point is that it isn't how much you fall that matters in life, it's how many times you get yourself up and keep going.
At fifty five I refuse to believe that only lately have you begin to encounter such situations.
So you made a mistake, big deal. Nobody got hurt, only your ego! And it is good for us to get our ego hurt, trust me. It builds character and teaches us a few things.
Have you learned something that night? YES. GOOD! Move on to the next outing with more knowledge, power and self confidence!

You are not an ugly man! You are not a retard and I muse that there is nothing crippling wrong with you. You are lucky, even though you might not feel it. Look around you! Other people have bigger issues to deal with than trying to pick up a chick at some bar.
Have fun first! The rest will come in place as it should.

Cheeeerio's!!!!!!!!!!





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Maybe it was that post-it note on your forehead that said, "I'm so old, I'll pay for it"...
if you need some, just ask....I bought an economy pack last week....





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Stop being so hard on yourself. At least you did the right thing and didn't do anything with her.





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It's that "don't be so hard on yourself" that led me to believe that someone like that would be interested in me!! I guess, i really need to be harder!!





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Well, at this point, Ship, you really got two choices.

Go out and keep trying.

Or go and hide in a cave! Oh, and give my regards to Bin Laden while you're at it!

I'd choose the keep trying option if I were you, unless you think you got a shot at that $50.000.000 reward.







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No ..... because one day there will be a lovely woman who will be charmed by you ..... and that won't be asking for cash. Just goes to show that one should be more cautious to rush into anything. Next time ask for another date instead of ending over to their home.





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Dammit! Why can I never find anyone I can pay for sex?





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well, she didn't find anyone to pay for sex, either!! At least not from me!!





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Dont be so hard on yourself man. Good things will happen when you least expect it. Think about that woman out there just waiting to meet you.


Now for a joke.

What is the best thng about watching a porn movie on rewind?

That way you get to watch the hooker give the money back.





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" Stop being so hard on yourself. ( At least you did the right thing and didn't do anything with her. ) " you got that right.... it's a good thing he walked away from her, whether he was going to pay for it or not, 30 mins of pleasure is not worth a life time of pain in that kind of situation.
Hey Shippy, find yourself a good self respecting woman , you be better off in the long run.





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happend to my dad and he was wondering for a week does he looks like person that will pay for sex and my mum was telling him that she might start charging him





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Well listen...when some woman in a bar wants to leave and have sex right away...Hooker or not...If you are looking for a descent woman that should send up red flags!!!!!!!!!

It would be no different than a man propositioning a woman right off the bat...Not the kind of man that would get my attention!!!!! So to me it shouldn't be a matter of someone being interested...It should be a matter of...Why would I want any woman that would leave a bar to have sex on the first night???????

Hooker or no hooker...Is that really the kind of woman you would want to date..Someone willing to walk out the door with the first man that comes along and buys her drinks?????????

Consider yourself lucky....







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I was not looking for a relationship! Or a one night stand! wasn't looking for a date!! I wasn't looking for anything! I was there for karaoke and a situation developed. I don't go prowling for p**y.

I just figured she was an adult and I was an adult...so what's the harm of two adults having a mutually good night!! I didn't try to pick her up! I just thought we had slid into something comfortable. BUT she turned out to be a hooker! I don't feel that I did anything wrong. Sorry about your judgemental attitudes. But I don't think it's wrong for two consenting adults to get together!! That is what condoms are for...I think!!






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