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Im 49 years old. Im your standard skinny white middle class man. I was once deemed "the tall skinny ugly kid with glasses". Ive never been photogenic, never been a "pretty man". You wont find any sexy shirtless pics of me around. Thats the facts. Ive accepted it. I still like me.
God cursed me with a lot, poor eyes, poor teeth, and no matter how I tried I never weighted much. I could bulk up and get pretty solid but even after years in a gym never gained mass. Some things just were never meant to be. So lets get past that.
I was recently told Ive got a heart of gold. Im a pretty damn good guy. I keep a job, I work hard at it and Im pretty good at it. I have primary custody of my two kids. I have given up everything for my kids and everything I do is for my kids. I quit drinking some 20 years ago. I never liked drugs. Im working at quitting smoking.
Im as honest as I can be with everyone. Im romantic and sensitive. Though some may percieve this thread differantly, Im not desperate or clingy. I dont demand anything from anyone. Im happy with e-mail friends, phone friends, and eventually a romantic relationship. Thats why I came here. Im not looking to make friends, Im not looking to have sex with every woman who says Hi to me, but I am looking for women to start a relationship with.
Im a decent guy. God as well as a few curses, he also gave me a few gifts. Im a great artist. Im really good at what I do for a living. Im good in bed too. Ive had more compiments than Ive ever heard anything bad....well except early on when I was learning, but I did learn...sad thing is few will get past the picture. Few women on this or any single site will look beyond the picture and "take a chance" to find out who I am or what Im really like.
Ill be honest here too, might as well. I love women, big women, little women, tall women, skinny women, I love them all. Yes ive been in relationships with all kinds. Point of it is. I prefer women built a little closer to me. I dont want to be with a woman who is bigger than me. Thats the honest truth. Call it a flaw, call it shallow, its still the truth. Ill e-chat with anyone and Ill enjoy it and hope you will too, but I wont persue much with the bigger girls.
I married a young bride and had children late. Most women think Im either a freak and WAY too old for them, or they think Im looking for a mother for my kids. Women my age have raised thier kids and arent interested in "raising" more. So lets get it on the table now. Im NOT looking for a mother for my kids. They have one. Shes wacky but still thier mother. Im not looking for a mother for me. I have one, shes wacky but still mom. Im on this site for ME to find ME a friend/parenter/lover. Kids are part of the deal but not my focus. If you cant understand that or accept it then sorry.
Age has never been a factor in my life. My ex is 15 years younger than me. Ive known and enjoyed women younger than me and women older than me. I have no preferance to age, each has thier good and bad, but I enjoy it all.
I guess the entire premis of this stupid post is...
Why wont women read these things. Why wont women take a chance and attempt to get to know a guy who seems "maybe a little interesting". Are we guys so spooky that women on these sites wont even bother or are all the women looking for that "Prince charming". Fabulous looks, stunning bod, and just sweep you off your feet. If so you are in for a few let downs.
I e-mail and flower a few women now and then. I get no responces. No sorry your just too butt ugly, sorry Im not looking anymore...Whyis that?
Somewhere theres a decent woman willing to take a chance and maybe get to know the skinny ugly guy...go ahead take a shot....
Lunch is over,
Be well

Let's be honest, shall we.....

Well, that would be a first for some people!

Me? I'll tell you like it is. Most women on the net will not give you the time of day unless there is something about you that jumps at them, and I do mean the time of day. Not a "sorry, but not interested. " or " Sorry" ... Nothing.
I personally don't blame them. Time is money these days- or a potential suitor.

Want more honesty, since I'm on a roll?

Change your picture.

Aww that's a great honest post.. and certainly not *Stupid* at ALL.

I completely understand what you are saying.. and it kind of goes back to something I was saying the other day.. about no matter how much you may speak/email/IM with people.. you just don't know them (and if you like them) until you actually spend time with them.

That's the hardest part with all this internet hoohaa. It would be so much better to be able to get to know someone in person first.. (Eg: You bump into them often, you know them from a store, bar, work etc.) get to know their real personalities.

But we cant.. for whatever our reasons.. so instead we are here, in internet la la land.. where looks seem to mean the passing or failing the first *test*

I think you sound like a lovely man.

Says the man not even brave enough to show himself.

You want honesty from a woman? Here......We get the same damn thing so dont feel like the lone ranger here! Nobody is perfect yet there are a select few who happen to think they are and they are in search of the same! Time goes on, gravity pulls, and someday we will all look the same...OLD!

Take care of you, and your kids.....something special will come your way!

I just did want to clear the forum with screaming women

Let's try this again, shall we?










I just did NOT want to clear the forum with screaming women...okay, that's better.

Actuall, I forgot this little yellow guy...



Now, that's better

hi zoomzoom,welcome,good to say it as it is .wheres your pic lol

I don't want to post a pic... Been watching this forum for a few weeks and I'll use the line the ladies use when they don't post a pic :

" I want to make an emotional connection first "

Sound like pretty good bullshit to me.

I think womens emotional sides kick in when it comes to responding to someone and letting them know they are not interested. In other words they dont want to be the one that has to deal out the rejection. Now they do get about a bazillion times more hits than most men and have to deal with that also. It seems that when dealing with rejection or a relationship that they are trying to end that they hope it would just fade away quietly. JMO. So that being said. What are the Ladies thoughts on that?

Hey, howboutu! How dare you take the bottom of the page! You're destined for better than that

lol.mabe you got that one right.like fall for the person before you see them.nice one zoomzoom.

It was the only space available. I have a plan to work my way to the top

Actually, according to women, all we guys want is a piece of @$$ so why do they bother with the profile and the pic?

here's a little yellow thingy for you

Because they have been told we are visual when it comes to attraction, sometimes just a pulse will do

I like your little yellow thingy

Poor little yellow guy... Now he's going to slap himself on the forehead for eternity.
See, women ARE cruel

All I got is a ladder