Ladies, how many times??..

alex_192
sarasota USA

Posted: Jul 10, 2008, 4:03 PM CST

DinaD wrote:

Have you gotten an IM from a guy and you accept and in the very first 15 minutes of conversation, they start with the "what are you wearing".."what kinda panties you have one, and what color"..."how big are your breasts".. or other sexual, personal questions, then the ever famous, "wanna cam?"...ugh
This is the very reason I stopped "chatting" a few years ago, and makes me cringe every time I get an IM from a guy.

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no i have not got any IM from males and all the talking you mentioned

but i got IM from females and they start telling me all those details, withut me asking

or offering me to go on can and check her"qualities"

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horselady5
Cincinnati, Ohio, Iowa USA

Posted: Jul 10, 2008, 4:05 PM CST

Mine is turned off.

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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA

Posted: Jul 10, 2008, 4:18 PM CST

I hate when women do that~~~~~~~~~

Don't worry, I won't name names...

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Dont_Look_Now
Huntsville, Alabama USA

Posted: Jul 10, 2008, 9:33 PM CST

DinaD wrote:

Have you gotten an IM from a guy and you accept and in the very first 15 minutes of conversation, they start with the "what are you wearing".."what kinda panties you have one, and what color"..."how big are your breasts".. or other sexual, personal questions, then the ever famous, "wanna cam?"...ugh
This is the very reason I stopped "chatting" a few years ago, and makes me cringe every time I get an IM from a guy.

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I turned my IM off after the first week it was getting so bad!!!! What makes them think we really want to talk about that anyway or that it is any of their business?

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Cary0608
Mandaluyong City, Quezon City Philippines

Posted: Jul 11, 2008, 3:47 AM CST

i got one yesterday and i've long since blocked that person from my account.

i salute the guys who will never ever subject any woman to such lowly behavior.

for the women: guys can treat us like sluts if we let them...so let's not.

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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jul 11, 2008, 3:49 AM CST

Mine is switched off and has been for ages

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Middy
Yorkshire, North Yorkshire, England UK

Posted: Jul 11, 2008, 3:58 AM CST

I switched off IM,

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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA

Posted: Jul 11, 2008, 4:11 AM CST

horselady5 wrote:

Mine is turned off.

same as mine!!

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muppetkiller
Snyder, Oklahoma USA

Posted: Jul 11, 2008, 4:19 AM CST

langleygirl wrote:

Too many times ........ that's why I wasn't thrilled to have the feature on this site. So far I've had one friend IM here, and I've ignored the rest and sometimes it actually hasn't worked either and I find out later that someone tried.

I figure if they really wanted to talk, they can send mail.

I'd personally rather mail than IM day .... especially when its someone I don't know. Gotta love those guys who IM and who haven't even read your profile.

Go figure, I've reached the point I tell a guy he should send me an e-mail, instead of trying to IM me. Doesn't that mean I should disable IM's?

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gingerb
Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland

Posted: Jul 11, 2008, 5:46 AM CST

DinaD wrote:

Have you gotten an IM from a guy and you accept and in the very first 15 minutes of conversation, they start with the "what are you wearing".."what kinda panties you have one, and what color"..."how big are your breasts".. or other sexual, personal questions, then the ever famous, "wanna cam?"...ugh
This is the very reason I stopped "chatting" a few years ago, and makes me cringe every time I get an IM from a guy.

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Thousands of times, last one about 5 minutes ago. I just block them.

I can see how it would make women wonder though, if the majority are doing that, then are most of the others just disguising the fact that they are like that too and just finding more acceptable ways of getting around it?

There seems to be no respect or decency anymore, just an urgency for gratification.

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