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nockuout1 waterbury USA
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OMG......
Do you feel better now
BTW you are not very nice to the other people,even when your spelling is perfect....
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lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
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Why am i not surprised you only found that interesting in the WHOLE thread?


I'm sorry to dissapoint you but Lola apologised for the 'mistake'. You can send her a private email and ask ( i heard you like sending private messages) Better yet, read on to the last page and see you are rejoicing over nothing.

Lola and i have no beef.






Again, sorry to disappoint you!


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lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
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The last post was for you!
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lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
nockuout1
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I will not go any deeper into this...

All ihave to say, And wish all the men you would speak to could read....

In life we are given many choices, The worst have been made blindly...

There is a verse in the Bible.
Loosley (as remembered)
God does not take from one man to bless another.
Any man who would take from another will gain a monetary reward, but it will never be blessed

Basically if it is under one man's roof whether it is truly his or not does not matter.
If it is gone from him it is just lost.
But if it is taken (under any reason) will always be stolen... God will not bless a thief.

And don't even get me started on Adultry Even though they are not married and have not exchanged vows (Common law Marriage has been obtained)

Does not mean that there is a loophole in the view of society...
You have given your Body to him, taken his seed and reproduced and isn't that a command from God.

you've already went deep enough....blah
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ericthall Asheville USA
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Eric

You said you were in the same situation ..so did you beat your wife and push her to do all those things she did to you to?Were you mentally as well as physically abusive ....cuz the way i see it is that you are assuming mary is like your ex well then i have to assume you are like the guy she is living with...


What I am trying to say is just because some chick did it to you ...doesnt mean she and mary are the same ....so dont talk to me about god and your beleifs cuz you just beleive whatever you want without facts!
Yes I agree i do not know the facts.
I do Know God he has brought me through.

I never Did the items being claimed here... But after all was said and done and she was gone i found she was claiming i was abusive... So some experience there.

Yes Also I have been around log enough to know what a lie is... My professional lifes work at one time was based on them.

I would place back to you believe what you ant to believe...

I can tell you if you spoke with my daughters they would tell you about daddy pitching a fit back in 1999 the reason it was tramatic is they have never heard me raise my voice to my wife...except on that day...

I gues you may be right because i too assume i'am like the guy she is living with...

I think if she is not willing to put him into it... Oh by the way.... have you ever spoken with him, or maybe had some online conversation???? i know i never did have the oppurtunity to defend myself while she tore me apart online... Tell me what you thought personally about him.????????????

Have you seen them together and know all that is written to be true.
I know a man that behind my back told my wife he had a 3 bedroom house big enough for her and her children... and how honorable he was... When she arrived he had a ONE bedroom converted barbershop apartment for them LMAOrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

So if it is in printed word doesn't make it so.professor

I think that I was as stupid as him by accepting her abuse towards me As nightlady states she has done to him
"I have told him and thats why we are Fussing 24/7"

Yes I most likely and exactly like him...Love to much to see the deceit and scheming going on behind the face i adore...
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lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
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Got it Lola, glad it's cleared up. Thanks.




Read above and enjoy nockuout1


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Yes i have my doubts about Nightlady's story which is what i've been trying to understand.
My last post was in regard to a certain old bat who posted the usual nothing and comes in here to insult the 'real' people who've been trying to help out Nightlady.

Do not even tread on sacred ground,who are you to insult foreveryoung for giving her opinion.That is what u do in the forum and I would think you would be more of a lady than to do the name calling.As for this lady you are calling the names like old bat really now shes been to hell and back has alot more knowledge than I have seen you give.From what I see you need to apologize for those so unkind words.thumbs down
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Tool12345 Mchenry, Illinois USA
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Yes I agree i do not know the facts.
I do Know God he has brought me through.

I never Did the items being claimed here... But after all was said and done and she was gone i found she was claiming i was abusive... So some experience there.

Yes Also I have been around log enough to know what a lie is... My professional lifes work at one time was based on them.

I would place back to you believe what you ant to believe...

I can tell you if you spoke with my daughters they would tell you about daddy pitching a fit back in 1999 the reason it was tramatic is they have never heard me raise my voice to my wife...except on that day...

I gues you may be right because i too assume i'am like the guy she is living with...

I think if she is not willing to put him into it... Oh by the way.... have you ever spoken with him, or maybe had some online conversation???? i know i never did have the oppurtunity to defend myself while she tore me apart online... Tell me what you thought personally about him.????????????

Have you seen them together and know all that is written to be true.
I know a man that behind my back told my wife he had a 3 bedroom house big enough for her and her children... and how honorable he was... When she arrived he had a ONE bedroom converted barbershop apartment for them LMAO

So if it is in printed word doesn't make it so.

I think that I was as stupid as him by accepting her abuse towards me As nightlady states she has done to him
"I have told him and thats why we are Fussing 24/7"

Yes I most likely and exactly like him...Love to much to see the deceit and scheming going on behind the face i adore...
I am not judging you pal as for i have no clue who you are!

I am just asking you not to judge her as for you have no clue who she is...as far as we know she could be an eighty year old woman whio lives by herself with her felines...You can tell what a lie is....

Well obviously you have already been decieted once...noone can tell when everyone is lying and to claim that you can is wrong

I have no quirm with you unless you keep this up ...

So once again i am asking you nicely to drop this..it is her life not yours!handshake
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nockuout1 waterbury USA
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nockuout1
boy you just love to name people......
I think you need help not nightlady...
remember its a free site ....
please don't use my name (it is against the forum rules) I can say and do what I want within the forum rules...oh and by the way lola only agreed to an apology only after you kissed her ass and begged for her to re read your post....
she knew you went talking to her she was just stating a fact....
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Tool12345 Mchenry, Illinois USA
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Do not even tread on sacred ground,who are you to insult foreveryoung for giving her opinion.That is what u do in the forum and I would think you would be more of a lady than to do the name calling.As for this lady you are calling the names like old bat really now shes been to hell and back has alot more knowledge than I have seen you give.From what I see you need to apologize for those so unkind words.
Hey ya Hilly...here is another lady i would defend to the death....dont piss her off she has many friends on herekiss
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ericthall Asheville USA
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you've already went deep enough....blah
yes your right i probably have.

But i will not sit back and watch someone be beaten down without representation of defense.

You just would have to be in the shoes and walk the road that i see...

yes it angers me because i Know the truth from the other side...

I would have more sympathy... But have you read the replies given to good heartfelt advice????

Start at the beginning and see if you will not be angry about deception when you get back to here.

OK OK oK
I will just go away from this it is futile and will be so dishonest no matter how it turns out.
Just have no remorse for a bald faced liar...
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yes your right i probably have.

But i will not sit back and watch someone be beaten down without representation of defense.

You just would have to be in the shoes and walk the road that i see...

yes it angers me because i Know the truth from the other side...

I would have more sympathy... But have you read the replies given to good heartfelt advice????

Start at the beginning and see if you will not be angry about deception when you get back to here.

OK OK oK
I will just go away from this it is futile and will be so dishonest no matter how it turns out.
Just have no remorse for a bald faced liar...
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Tool12345 Mchenry, Illinois USA
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yes your right i probably have.

But i will not sit back and watch someone be beaten down without representation of defense.

You just would have to be in the shoes and walk the road that i see...

yes it angers me because i Know the truth from the other side...

I would have more sympathy... But have you read the replies given to good heartfelt advice????

Start at the beginning and see if you will not be angry about deception when you get back to here.

OK OK oK
I will just go away from this it is futile and will be so dishonest no matter how it turns out.
Just have no remorse for a bald faced liar...
And who would be the bald face liar?
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lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
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Do not even tread on sacred ground,who are you to insult foreveryoung for giving her opinion.That is what u do in the forum and I would think you would be more of a lady than to do the name calling.As for this lady you are calling the names like old bat really now shes been to hell and back has alot more knowledge than I have seen you give.From what I see you need to apologize for those so unkind words.
Where does she get off calling people sarcastic for giving their opinions ?????


Where does she get off????


She and i have never liked each other, why? Because the first word she ever said to me on these forums was 'garbage' so if you think for one second i will be nice to her after she 'started' being nasty with me, then you are sadly mistaken.

I don't need you hillybilly or anyone else to be my fans, whatsmore, i didn't come here to meet women.



Maybe she is your friends, but you have no idea how it started and i'm least bothered to explain.


I need no fans and will not be nice to her after she's been nasty with me.

That single word 'garbage' started this so blame her!!!!!
PERIOD!
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lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
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boy you just love to name people......
I think you need help not nightlady...
remember its a free site ....
please don't use my name (it is against the forum rules) I can say and do what I want within the forum rules...oh and by the way lola only agreed to an apology only after you kissed her ass and begged for her to re read your post....
she knew you went talking to her she was just stating a fact....
Oficially Ignored!


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nockuout1 waterbury USA
yeah, becuse you know I'm right and you don't have a snappy comeback is that right sweetheart..?lol...lmao...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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No judgements or ugliness. Please. Just a yes or no.
She never committed herself to the man she lives with.
She never made any promises to him.
He the same.
They stay together for the sake of their children.
He promises to sat her free when the children are grown.
There is no love between the two.
Only hated.
They can't even stand to be in the same room together.
Argument day after day.
Fussing 24/7.
She seeks love some where else.
People judge her.
They say it is wrong.
They tell her to work things out with the one she lives with.
But this is not what these to people want.
She thinks she has found someone.
They end things because they are not compartible.
They call each players.
To me a player is someone who promises them things and then does not fall through with them or is playing with different people.
She is honest with both men.
What do you think?
And to put my two cents in here the she you speak of is such a loser.To give up on herself for one to give up on those children,and to drag this someone into your mixture shows how foul this she is.First for her to make a decision to stay,regargless of her feelings,did that make any kind of sense.And then to turn around and sday there is fighting and hating going on being displaying in front of the real ones being hurt here.You need those children removed from both of you.If you want to tear each other apart then have at it.I shudder to think of the damage she has already did here.And then you come out with you found someone.Why so you can pull him into this ugly brew,you concocted and you call it family.I feel so sorry for you that you could subject your children to such a thing,oh I meant she.D'oh! thumbs down
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Arlene101 Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada
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I'm with you on that.
I'm exhausted to.
My pritories lie with my kids and myself.
Thanks
Hi there It is me, good to see you again!!! I am older than you and have experienced what you did!!!! I really do not want t be harsh on you , but GET OUT!!!!! I went to a womans shelter and took it from there. One night I had to walk about a mile to get to a phone witj blod all over me, my face, coat, everywhere. The best advise that I ever received was from the cop!!!!!! I rembember his words until this day and that was 20 years ago. He said, I do not feel sorry for you anymore Mrs. MacQween at the time (my married name at the time). because we keep coming and you keep going back. I could kiss that cop right now , beause I left for good with nothing and if you have friends they will rally in a hurry!!!! Trust me ! I started out agin with nothing but ended up with peace of mind and no panic attacks or verbal or physical at that. I dont want to be hard on yu , Nightlady, but that cop did for me what noone else could. Give me a good kick!!! Love Ya!!!! Arlenethumbs up thumbs up thumbs up hug hug
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yeah, becuse you know I'm right and you don't have a snappy comeback is that right sweetheart..?lol...lmao...
hi....wave hug
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