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You must have missed it.
#1 i knew (MY EX-Wife)
Just didn't know all the secrets because i loved her so much i chose to ignore what i didn't want to see....
I think you can relate to this (example... NOW)
If you were not concerned then why have the post where you did piont out babsie and the one where you said you didn't removed when i posted the two together Hmmmmm?
You think by mentioning my past experience in my failed marriage will What????
Hurt my credibility , Don't see how... i would never back down from what i have written nor would i hide it....
I was raised to believe that there are two sides to every coin... Plus I'am a libra it must be the scale thing...
I was Lucky and blessed in my raising to be in a home where my parents believed in love and had no shame to say it...
Fortunate to be raised by parents who instilled in thier children the value of honesty and the penalties of deceit...
See here is another example of backtracking words You call it harmlessly flirting... She called it in her post finding another love...
So i don't feel like i need to try to beat you, doing a fine job on your own...
All I'am saying and have ever said on here is honesty is what works for me... If you have a quarrel with honest words to the point of having to be on the verge of threats it is your thing and maybe it is in your upbringing
As far as woman beaters (or any abusive person male or female) i have no need for them and feel they are not even worth the oxygen they are wasting...
But do you not think being labeled as an abusive person should be founded with proof????
Actually i want to ask you...
if a female or male labels any other person as abusive would you not want to just walk up to the abuser stomp the life out of them....
I do not defend these type of people ,But should we set idley by while the unfounded proof is not present and we only know 1/2 of the story.
I remeber high school ..how rumors got started then recieved some bodies to go with it ... then after 3:00 someone got the sh&^t kicked out of them and didn't even know why...
So i will go on record as saying Imature activity will bring forth Imature actions...
So where is the post i placed about who didn't point or single out someone...
I also have a great liking for bluebabsie and have talked with her many times here... She doesn't deserve being lied to either.... So it was written ,it was posted, and copy and pasted.... What happened to it..?
Talk to me about honesty.
Hmmmm Well I think if you want to talk about honesty then you should first of all admit you cannot see deception as you were deceived by someone very close to you
And I wasnt deceived by Nightlady I was with her for a short while didnt like the way things were going and got out!! Where is the deception there? She told me of her situation
As far as the babs thing ...that is done and over with me and babs are fine now ...ask her yourself ..how did i lie there? get your facts straight before posting blindly
And I wasnt trying to point out you have a failed marriage either cuz that would be calling the kettle black as i also am divorced i was trying to point out that you cant say who is lying but you have decided to take the mans side because he isnt here to defend himself...Well I think babs said she went through something similiar are you saying it was her fault to i am sure you havent talked to her ex...
You can call it what you want ...looking for love or harmless flirting until two people actually meet its one or the other as far as honesty its what i beleive so yea that is honest....I am nor threatening you nor feel the need tooo...you mean nothing to me now nor probaly never will
As far as abusers so since she says she was abused and you being the expert on deceptions she must be lying cuz you feel she is and he must be just like you a saint just trying to save his marriage yet ...he seems to never make time fro her cuz she is on here alot.....hmmm yea your right that does make sense ....you need to open your eyes before you comment
I never said take action without proof i am an american inncocent til proven guilty but i am not going to take his side and call her a liar just cuz of my past experiences
This isnt high school pal ...if you feel at that level then maybe you need to grow up a lil more...Like i said before i dont know you
And i still dont get your point about babsie i asked for everyone to stop pointing out the same thing over and over agin to her she asked for advice but geesh not the same ones over and over again....sort of like what we are doing here you keep bringing up the same points but i will not sit back and just take it..i will respond
So bring something new up or just stop already!Its getting old
And who did you call a bald face liar?