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A Crush

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shyboy79
Orangeburg, New York USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:16 PM CST
I have a crush on this girl at work. She usually say hi and smile to me when she sees me at the hall. However, after several eye contacts she stops say hi and smile to me at the hall. She even finds different route to go to her lab, so she won't see me at the hall or at the lab. My first sign is that I have a feeling that she is not interesting in me. Should I still try to find a way to approach her or email her and tell her how I feel? Or I just forget about it and find another girl who interest in me. Thanks
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Unmatchable
Martinsville, Virginia USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:25 PM CST
Your fixation is being picked up by her and making her uncomfortable, act on it and approach her directly (and accept the consequences) or let it go and move on.
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shyboy79
Orangeburg, New York USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:27 PM CST
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Your fixation is being picked up by her and making her uncomfortable, act on it and approach her directly (and accept the consequences) or let it go and move on.
What do you mean by fixation?
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Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:27 PM CST
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Your fixation is being picked up by her and making her uncomfortable, act on it and approach her directly (and accept the consequences) or let it go and move on.
thats it!

i agree with Un...

make a clean start either way
what could be better?

residue is yukky
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constanza
Los Angeles, California USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:30 PM CST

Don't mix business with pleasure JMO
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Unmatchable
Martinsville, Virginia USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:31 PM CST
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What do you mean by fixation?
It's just another word attraction... allure... intrigue... desire... infatuation... longing... that sort of thing.

Good luck.
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Hello3
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:34 PM CST
Don't mean to sound cruel young man but i dont think she is interested in you, and as you grow up you will learn,you will get rejections as everyone does at some stage in their life,you just have to move on and be confident that you will meet the right lady good luck young man. leprechaun
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shyboy79
Orangeburg, New York USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:35 PM CST
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It's just another word attraction... allure... intrigue... desire... infatuation... longing... that sort of thing.

Good luck.
Thank you for your clarify.
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shyboy79
Orangeburg, New York USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:37 PM CST
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Don't mix business with pleasure JMO
Don't you think people can have a business with pleasure?grin
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shyboy79
Orangeburg, New York USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:39 PM CST
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Don't mean to sound cruel young man but i dont think she is interested in you, and as you grow up you will learn,you will get rejections as everyone does at some stage in their life,you just have to move on and be confident that you will meet the right lady good luck young man.
You are not sound so cruel at all. Thank you for your response.
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shyboy79
Orangeburg, New York USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:40 PM CST
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thats it!

i agree with Un...

make a clean start either way
what could be better?

residue is yukky
Thank you for your advice.
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Konigsberg
Jurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:40 PM CST
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I have a crush on this girl at work. She usually say hi and smile to me when she sees me at the hall. However, after several eye contacts she stops say hi and smile to me at the hall. She even finds different route to go to her lab, so she won't see me at the hall or at the lab. My first sign is that I have a feeling that she is not interesting in me. Should I still try to find a way to approach her or email her and tell her how I feel? Or I just forget about it and find another girl who interest in me. Thanks
Well .... i would leave her alone


Good Luck conversing
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Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:40 PM CST
fyi folks

shyboys first language is not english-if i remember correctly?

so be patient
here's to you
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shyboy79
Orangeburg, New York USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:45 PM CST
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fyi folks

shyboys first language is not english-if i remember correctly?

so be patient
Yes, you are right. English is my third languages.
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Unmatchable
Martinsville, Virginia USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:50 PM CST
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Yes, you are right. English is my third languages.
Third language, pfft!! It's my TENTH! Take THAT you smart person you...

My other nine languages of which I am fluent, are as follows:

Thickburger
Chalupa
Sweet Tea
Steak
Chinese food
Coffee
Chocolate
Strawberries
Cereal

professor
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Unmatchable
Martinsville, Virginia USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 2:55 PM CST
That was a joke... uh oh!
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shyboy79
Orangeburg, New York USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 3:09 PM CST
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Third language, pfft!! It's my TENTH! Take THAT you smart person you...

My other nine languages of which I am fluent, are as follows:

Thickburger
Chalupa
Sweet Tea
Steak
Chinese food
Coffee
Chocolate
Strawberries
Cereal

laugh the language of food. Yummy
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shyboy79
Orangeburg, New York USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 3:11 PM CST
Actually, I am not that smart at all. I am kind fool when it comes to relationship.
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Unmatchable
Martinsville, Virginia USA
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 3:12 PM CST
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the language of food. Yummy
YEAH! HAHA, I was worried you didn't get me for a second... phew. LOL.

2 thumbs up handshake here's to you
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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: Nov 9, 2007, 3:18 PM CST
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Actually, I am not that smart at all. I am kind fool when it comes to relationship.
wow!


laugh
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