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I don't know about all of you people here but I find it very hard to communicate with women around my area on this site maybe it's just me? i think iv been on this site for like 8 months now and havnt met up with anyone what is this

Be patient, it takes years.

Do you mean you haven't met anyone face to face?

correct

That's it, you build up his confidence

uhh is it that everybody is supposed to meet someone here .... mandatory ? what did u do in 8 months ? u didnt meet up or they didnt turn up ? is it why u r damning this site ?

I've been here three weeks, like yourself just chatted to women from my area not meet anyone yet,so i can't say wheather it works our not.

it is just hard to meet people in your area on your site it is a dating site and all i dont know why you would be here if you werent looking to meet up with someone

maybe all the ones your age are out at the clubs JMO

I know how you feel. I've been on the site for about a year and have yet to meet someone. It gets very frustrating. Someone saying it takes years, well that doesn't give me much hope.

Yep, site works fine. It is all of us that don't work & hang out on the damn computer all day. Now, I do suppose we could just post our addresses (and phone numbers for directions) and have everyone congregate in one place.

I will make the coffee, who is bringing the donuts??

Now, if only I was 20 years younger & lived closer to Spain..

How many women are on this site from your area? And, of those women, how many are somewhat possible to connect with? If you are looking for a real connection, there is no timeline...maybe tonight, maybe tomorrow, maybe in 5 or more years. If you want something more casual and fleeting, you will likely be able to find that with your eyes closed and in no time. I receive a number of messages and flowers from men in my area, but it is very rare to find one from someone with whom I feel a connection...a possibility...or a bond. Give it time, enjoy what online services offer, but don't put all of your eggs in one basket. Expand your portfolio.

I thought(mybe wrong)you had a new love in your life?
Give it time,try other sit..oooppp!Do't want to be banned from cs.Are you sending flowers?The right 1 is worth waiting for.Beleive me,I'm 52 average looks and a true beleiver in God.Also have 3 cats I make sure a guy knows they are my family.You got problems?I got a flower from a guy 122yrs old who said,umm do you have any phoo of your feet. Thought I'd heard them all on this site.

Yes... and your *Net*

Ok listen, people start out generally with the wish to meet somebody but, and it's a big but, it doesn't happen, or not successfully, so they stay to take part in the forums because they've made contact in a platonic way with lots of people.

I think most people here are quite lonely and some have no life other than CS (please note readers, I said SOME!) so they are here for a different reason than yours.

You're very young, go out and enjoy yourself in the real world.

Well I find this sight too global to actually think I might meet someone. I don't have the funds it would require to develop a long term relationship. There are very few members from my area and perhaps that is the case with many. Still I see there are people who are connecting. I suppose it takes a greater level of tenacity than I am capable of employing. I have a very nonchalant attitude about it though so it doesn't bother me. However for those who are seriously searching I would imagine it could be very disheartening.

photo of feet

and then sometimes you do meet someone and it turns out that they were not looking for the same thing you are,then you walk away with a broken heart...be patient....

dood

chill out


you are still germinating as a person

there are quality ppl around
and scattered all over the world

are you putting in some effort?

maybe its good you havent met anyone and had a bad experience?

i think youre interesting
always have
dont woory
youll be found when the time is right